How do i build a personality?

re_all · 2018-09-03T00:55:51+00:00

Gentlemen,

Check this person's post history.

hamacule2000 · 2018-09-03T01:05:00+00:00

I found that becoming a successful conversationalist went hand-in-hand with the following:

1) Watching and studying stand-up comedy

2) Collecting a lot of interesting trivia from current events, science news, and pop culture

3) Expanding my vocabulary, but not using it to sound pretentious -- rather to be able to come up with clever wordplay. I am known to frequently produce funny portmanteaus and puns during banter with friends. Yes, they groan and tell me I'm "fired", but I do it tonue-in-cheek with a charismatic grin and they know they fucking love it.

4) Generally being canderous, upbeat, making eye contact with a genuine smile goes a long way.

5) When funny things happen, remembering them and making references back to them later with the people who were there. (Basically, inside jokes)

6) When someone introduces a topic, bringing it back up later (shows you were listening to them)

7) Just shutting my mouth sometimes and let others talk. Folks love a listener. Give them positive verbal and nonverbal feedback while they have the floor.

DO NOT PUT YOURSELF DOWN IN FRONT OF OTHERS.

Many guys do this. They think self-deprecation is charming to others. It actually fucking sucks to be around someone who always puts themselves down, because of the "psychic vampire" concept. AVOID NEGATIVE VIBES.

Joroda · 2018-09-03T03:07:55+00:00

Be a man not a circus clown. Fuck what they think.

_amazingBastard · 2018-09-03T03:34:47+00:00

Just become Tom Cruise bro

Setari · 2018-09-03T03:55:52+00:00

Stop posting if you're not going to do anything about it.

Atolla2 · 2018-09-03T09:11:58+00:00

Learn about the world, develop feelings/opinions/passions. Once you build up a network of knowledge & views, conversation will become more of an impulse that you're having to hold back than something you need to focus on building.

Also, stop worrying about pleasing others. It's the biggest trait of a loser. Some people will like you, some won't, don't stress it.

Title	How do i build a personality?
Author	hamacule2000
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	September 3, 2018 12:51 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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