Guys who were once in this situtation please help a brother out... girls never got interested in me

thementaltyrant · 2018-07-22T13:15:51+00:00

Get off the snap chat. That's not how you meet and establish anything with women. That's after the fact or for broads that you'll never fuck but are slutty enough to just post for all anyways.

You gotta actually interact with them and do things with them. Anything that starts on a app/online , is probably going to end there too, and before it ever is anything real.

nastyamerican · 2018-07-22T13:45:21+00:00

Learn how to banter/flirt. Read Models by Mark Manson. You’re trying to be liked so much that you’re boring literally everyone you interact with. You’re not letting any of your actual personality shine through because you’re afraid they won’t like the real you. What you don’t understand is that if women or anyone doesn’t like you, and they leave or stop I interacting with you, they’re doing you a favor. Also if you can, I would move out of such a religious country.

Oranjeback · 2018-07-22T13:10:09+00:00

I'm taking an honest look at myself in the mirror whilst I type this. I'm about 25 Lbs overweight. My skin has broken out with spots due to a combination of lack of self care and eating a load of junk food recently. My clothes are faded and poorly fitted. I'm spending the little disposable income i have on junk food and booze when in reality I should be spending it on gym memberships, clothing, interesting experiences that can make me a more engaging person to talk to.

Im honestly thinking about just putting the next month of my life into self improvement and feeling better about myself. If I was looking at myself through the eyes of another person I would not be interested in me. I've got to put myself in a position where I think Im interesting, engaging and attractive before i can ask anybody else to feel that way about me.

bugxter · 2018-07-22T17:42:47+00:00

Damn, you are me a couple of years back.

Just some bullet points:

Social networks are too hard, I don't get them either. Girls get LOTS of request each day and they don't have the time/energy to get to know everybody. Don't sweat it.
I'm no seduction gurú, I'm still earning my wings, but I've dated around 7-8 girls just this year, and one of them is one of the most amazing women I've ever met. In their eyes I'm cool, sexy, fun, etc... and I still don't get complimented by random girls (that'd be cool). Girls will rarely initiate contact or express their interest first, just accept it and deal with it. It's OUR responsibility as men to approach and seduce.

Okay that was only two bullet points (I am lazy), but I think my general advice would be: Stop sweating about stuff you have NO CONTROL over: whether girls compliment you, whether they initiate, whether they ask you stuff, it's all out your control. You need a paradigm shift: Who cares what they like? You should be asking what do YOU like?

Also, read Models by Mark Manson.

ACallFromTheMist · 2018-07-22T13:07:44+00:00

How about irl meetings?

Chamizo4 · 2018-07-23T02:04:13+00:00

5000 girls.......

Jesus crist dude.

The only time I used snapchat was because a girl wanted to move from whats app to there just to exchange nudes.

Thats the only reason why snapchat exists

Its not an app to text chat.

Title	Guys who were once in this situtation please help a brother out... girls never got interested in me
Author	hamacule2000
Upvotes	22
Comments	18
Date	July 22, 2018 11:13 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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