I am free falling

SaItySaiIor · 2020-02-04T04:01:30+00:00

The sooner you accept the fact that you are required only to set yourself up financially and maintain physical fitness...the happier you will be ...with enough money and physical health you can endure any thing, even the potential downfall of a divorce and child support, which is mainly where marriage leads to

NotherThrowaway284 · 2020-02-04T04:07:43+00:00

Okay, so you know what it is you wanted (and I am sorry it isn't working out); do you know why you wanted it, though? You need to if you really want to understand yourself.

Gretatunberg · 2020-02-04T11:47:37+00:00

feeeeeeeeels my feeeeels

not a lot of facts in your post and lots of "feel".These feels are, simply put, your ennemies.The only feel you will ever like is the one of Victory after doing things.

SunRunner82 · 2020-02-04T12:06:04+00:00

Ah... the red pill. I remember my first days...

MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2020-02-04T05:42:29+00:00

I don't know what the future has to offer me

Nobody knows what the future has to offer them. Nobody wakes up thinking they’ll get into a 10 car pileup.

I see my chances to build something decreasing a little everyday.

Based on what evidence. Unless you are in the 60+ age bracket this is just you telling yourself something and thinking it’s true.

it is my destiny to show it to someone that shares my blood

Check out commercial surrogacy then

A bit of me seems to be dying a bit.

Biologically speaking we are all dying every day.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-02-05T01:11:01+00:00

It's scary but you will learn as you go that you will make it and become even more independent and content.

I believe contentment is a reachable goal.. not happy.. too much pressure.

VestigialHead · 2020-02-04T09:41:58+00:00

I have often thought that if you are in a situation where you are in a relationship and feel there is potential for the women to screw you over that it might be wise to somehow setup a survival pack for when the lawyers come.

It will help if you have a family member or very trusted friend that you can secretly give money or gold or assets to, on the provision they will never spend them or sell them and will return them to you once the divorce has been completed and settled.

Maybe drip feeding it back to you so there is no sudden asset rise for the lawyers to grab.

I realise this is probably illegal in some countries so take this advice with caution.

But something needs to be done to protect your assets from scumbag divorce lawyers set upon you by a vindictive women. I would like to see pre-nups taken seriously by courts and not breakable. But I doubt that will happen.

batfish55 · 2020-02-04T11:48:02+00:00

You can always hire a surrogate.

Mindraker · 2020-02-04T22:30:46+00:00

Relax. Imagine yourself sipping a martini at age 65.

Sid_Insidious · 2020-02-05T14:59:20+00:00

A part of you *IS* dying, but that's not a bad thing because a part of you is a lie you were sold. When that lie gets hit with the light of day, it smokes withers and burns like a vampire in the morning sun. You will feel all kinds of emotions: anger, sadness, betrayal, loss and yes - even RAGE!! This is a process most of us go through - it's normal. Don't try to repress those emotions - it's not healthy. (But if it's 2 years or 5 years later and you're still red hot mad about it, then it's a problem.) But when you're new, everything you're describing is perfectly natural and normal. It will take months or years for you to fully embrace the idea that you are a sovereign, individual human being with full autonomy and self-determination. You are NOT here as a servant to others - you must take care of your needs and your wants - and this goes whether or not you want a S.O. in your life or not. Men who put everyone else first are miserable doormats - usually passive aggressive and full of repressed rage - just read the comments. A good book is "No More Mister Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover. Let the part of you that is a lie die and fall off. You'll then be free, despite suffering a loss. It's WORTH IT man, YOU are WORTH IT!!

GTOH4U · 2020-02-04T22:21:06+00:00

Sounds like you don't have a pair.

Title	I am free falling
Author	SupraDestroy
Upvotes	1
Comments	29
Date	February 4, 2020 3:41 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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