I need your help and advice

countinginsolitude · 2019-12-20T21:45:46+00:00

I'm from MGTOW and sometimes visit MGTOW2. You posted it on this sub because you know you'd get a real whooping posting this on the main MGTOW sub. That tells you all you need to know about this situation. You know yourself deep down she's not what you want, and not what you need. Have some respect for your damn self. Dump her and don't get involved with girls who do drugs or participate in orgies. What's wrong with you?! Seriously. She's probably been dicked by Tyrone and Chad at the same time and you're spending your time, sorry, wasting your time with her? Say goodbye and walk away.

Yonisensei18 · 2019-12-20T23:42:31+00:00

Personally, I would have noped out of there as soon as I heard cocaine. You clearly know what to do by now, the fact that you felt the need to avoid direct confrontation with MGTOW shows that you know exactly how the other members would demolish such a thought.

You can see she falls short and with her passive nature how could you expect her to be any better now? Let this one go back to her thotty ways and return to going your way.

millionmilecummins · 2019-12-20T21:43:23+00:00

If you feel like an idiot now, just wait until your married. Chick has been through the wringer, and you know it yet refuse to accept it. Why are you wasting time on such a useless skank of an animal. Red flags abound sir. I would not doubt she’s done a movie or three. Leave this scaly wag alone. If your gut is telling you something, believe it. With all the STD’s going around, please abstain from porking her. I hope you haven’t sir. To scare you a bit more, I work in Pharma as drug development scientist, sadly the strain STD’s is so potent nowadays. Not many available drugs today cannot combat these new strain of STD’s. Proceed at your own risk my friend.

wsmith79 · 2019-12-21T03:51:36+00:00

If the actions of this woman do not make you disgusted, you are not ready to go your own way and need some more abuse..

go your own way man,

30203forever · 2019-12-20T21:29:02+00:00

I may think about getting married one day.

Seriously? Isn't it a common knowledge that marriage is a shit deal for the men nowadays? As far as "dating" (i.e. legalized prostitution) is concerned, between the rampant STDs, accidental-on-purpose pregnancies & the $MeToo extortion racket, the proverbial juice is not worth the squeeze. Use porn, pay a professional or go on a sex tour of SEA/LA & get your rocks off. On the other hand, if you're dumb enough to consider marriage in the West, dating is the right first step in that direction. Good luck! P.S. Don't be a Captain-Save-A-Ho, bro!

Jake4523 · 2019-12-21T00:03:18+00:00

That's gonna be a no from me dawg.

Others have already said this but I'll say it again, STDs are getting worse and worse than ever before, not only that but she may have one and not even know. Plus she sounds like she is batshit crazy, and just immature, giving you shit for talking about this stuff? Dude, c'mon this isn't information that should be hidden from you, what if you got an STD from her? Or even worse got AIDs? She may have gotten other men infected and not even know, or even care!

transcis · 2019-12-21T12:42:00+00:00

She says she is past these things, but any time you hear this, silently add "for now" in your mind to make it more accurate. It is unlikely that this girl is capable of pre-commitment to not do drugs or orgies in the future.

MuleFool42 · 2019-12-23T18:38:42+00:00

The Institute for Family studies has found that for women, anything over 10 sexual partners leads to a higher probability of divorce. Nobody can say why this is, it's correlation and not causation, but it's speculated that the ability to pair bond is diminished.

Now, as MGTOW, you should not be thinking about marriage, but if you were, you would not want to take your chance with someone that's been the town bicycle, even if they say that 'those days are behind them" now.

Marriage is a raw deal, so get that out of your mind, and if you did marry, it shouldn't be with this person.

That said, you don't need to tell your friends about her past, and you should just let the relationship hit its natural end, which it will. There will be a point when she wants to move on. Expect it, and when it happens, get the hell out and don't look back. View this relationship as mutually beneficial for companionship and sex, but also temporary.

DangZagnut · 2019-12-20T22:43:52+00:00

I'm neither anti-drug, nor anti-orgy girls, and prefer women like that personally.

If it bothers you, GTFO, there's no law making you date someone.

If it doesn't bother you, do what you want, but don't even think about whether or not you measure up to "other guys" she's been with, because she doesn't care, so why should you.

So if it embarrasses you (why) then don't be with her, if you're just dating, why care?

Just do not invest emotional energy into this. Date fun, date casual, set an expiration date, and have fun.

Or don't. It's 100% up to you.

Concern over her sexual and drug use is a trad con thing, if you're just having fun, it shouldn't matter at all.

AdrenalineJunkySloth · 2019-12-21T05:25:25+00:00

Don't do coke, orgies are overrated and not worth it 99% of the time, don't commit. Just have fun with no strings or keep her as a strict friend. You're fine, she's in an entirely different world than you are so you guys won't be too compatible anyways.

801735 · 2019-12-22T09:37:57+00:00

I honestly in my gut, feel like I shouldn't be with

Trust your gutstinks and take a dump?

2019-12-27T11:12:53+00:00

I think you should watch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07-QBnEkgXU

awwhorsefeathers · 2019-12-27T14:20:55+00:00

I’ll stick my neck out here for a good chopping. A lot of people were wild in college, that’s part of the experience. Drugs could be fun back then and can be a fun thing at any part of your life if you want it and are smart about it. You say the orgy thing freaks you out but they are actually pretty fun and there’s a damn good reason why they go down. I was part of a spontaneous one and it was the best night of my life! I’ve snorted and had great nights dancing with a pretty girl all night long. Sex, love, and drugs are as dangerous as you make them; too much to often, or whether you choose safe sex or not, and if you do or don’t control the relationship frame. Maybe she’s not the one for you. Maybe you are being holier than thou also. At least she was honest, and it’s hard to find people who will admit their sordid past details and No one says you have to marry her. My advice is drop the judgement and the guilt and have fun. Just be a smart player in life and not a spectator, and if you start losing just forfeit the game and start a new one.

possiblethrowaway93 · 2019-12-28T19:28:36+00:00

I think I'm far too fucked up and insecure as a guy to be in a relationship as is. I haven't reached a point where I would be ok with a relationship, it ending and me being by myself again. I need to work on myself more, I broke things off. I just need to be able to find happiness for myself, which just isn't there right now. Ty, guys.

SizzleMop69 · 2020-01-02T21:26:52+00:00

Holy red flag Batman.

Title	I need your help and advice
Author	possiblethrowaway93
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	December 20, 2019 9:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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