Lost

33or45 · 2021-03-26T06:21:35+00:00

get your meals straight - high quality protein and vegetables - avoid bread and junk - eat twice a day between 12 midday and 7pm
Buy yourself some good headphones, make a bunch of favourite playlists and go to the gym every day - no excuses - even if you just go and do 30 mins of stretching because youre sore - use it as an hour to zone out to your favourite music - its almost meditation.
Go to bed at the same time every night and leave your phone / laptop in another room - dont take it with you - you need to get a strict routine for sleep.
This includes weekends - you are going to do this for 3 months - no staying up late because its Friday or there is a good film on - every night.
Avoid alcohol in excess, completely if you can - this is a depressive and your symptoms sound like you are suffering some kind of depression - this will only increase it after youve drunk
Take a good multi vitamin everyday
Once you have done this for 3 months you need to decide what it is you want to do every day - what industry excites you ? - When someone asks you the question "what do you do?" you can say with pride " I work for .... I do this... "It honestly doesnt matter what that is - if it excites you - people will be excited to hear.You need to search for every company that does what it is in that industry - is it music events or something physical, do you like to have lots of hours to yourself thinking and seeing the country? (consider truck driving) can you talk passionately about a certain product that you could convince someone to buy it, that could be anything from computer games to water based lube? - once you have an industry you want to be a part of you contact every company that does that, but you need to make yourself a low risk gamble to them - offer yourself for a very low fee, say you'll help out wherever - its painful at the start because you may not earn a lot , but if you are passionate about the industry you are in, people will see it and will ensure they dont lose you, it may take a year or two but I promise if you can show value you will be back to what you are earning now or more.
Keep going with steps 1 - 5 - your brain fires correctly when youre doing stuff that you have passion for - its a snowball effect after that, where everything gets better.

2021-03-26T16:14:56+00:00

Get out of MGTOW right now dude. This place is a black hole for lost souls.

Thereisnopurpose12 · 2021-03-26T09:04:27+00:00

Damn I felt this bro. 25 ans feeling this rn.

yamahantx700 · 2021-03-26T07:15:47+00:00

Talk more about these dreams. What is the theme you keep seeing?

Germantaffer · 2021-03-26T07:16:34+00:00

This sounds like a depression. If he has a depression he has no lust for a diet or something, that's doing him good. Most men take alcohol then because they know it's not good for them! Depression is simply a regulation illness like diabetes, not a behavior problem! There exists depression medicaments, that activate your life first, but the sad thoughts will probably stay. If you at this state finally , to doing the power you have fight for your life. You have to do all for your life first, make things what you make laugh, make a lot of sport, even you hate it doing so. Avoid social media and illegal drugs and alcohol at all costs! There are many toxic people out there. Finally you have to get rid of sad thoughts. If you know an excellent psychotherapist, take it. If he is mediocre, he will doing you bad. Probably you had a hard time and no time be aware this. Get rid of the wrong expectations!! You will have a hard time, but you will have the chance getting a fulfilled life then.

yamahantx700 · 2021-03-26T07:49:54+00:00

You have time, so take a deep breath! Keep that biological clock energy out of here!

In what state do you live, do you want kids, how healthy are you?

S_Taera · 2021-03-26T08:23:44+00:00

I don't know what I'm doing with my life. I can't answer the question what do I want out of life? I just feel empty, I have no desire for anything.

Aside from depression which is worsen with your lack of sleep, i think we all limited by our brain's knowledge and wisdom, maybe at this moment you're depressed because your mind has reach it's limit, maybe it crave new knowledge, new topic that is stimulating and challenging the mind, new page to explore to let the frog escape from the well.

Maybe learn new skill, new hobby, read and study new knowledge, hell read anything that has word and sentences that comes to your face, who knows something might hit the spot and reignite your passion once again.

Don't let your mind idle and wander around aimlessly too often, it's dangerous and afterall aren't men built to think and create ideas? that's what separate us from animals

MGTOWch · 2021-03-26T08:32:09+00:00

You don’t have to answer the question in a day. Find what drive you to be better, what make you happy, what interest you., then focus on making those things a big part of your life.

Only you have the answer to what those are.

Inevitable_Ad_8170 · 2021-03-26T09:57:44+00:00

Are you suffering from loneliness?

I would suggest finding a profession which would give satisfaction to your daily life, where you meet people and customers, and have a couple of coworkers. Then get a cat or a dog, and in your free time you can explore the world and life. Learn to enjoy the small things in life.

Maelandrew · 2021-03-26T16:25:51+00:00

Get a dog.

Gaiinahat · 2021-03-27T01:18:16+00:00

You're not lost. You're on an adventure in uncharted territory. You're MGTOW. None of us have a place in this world. That's why we go our own way, to make our own place, and deny this world our servitude. 33or45 covered the health aspects. That will get rid of your heath problems so you can focus on your goals. You will have goals, you're just not focused on them right now.

TeslaThreeAWD · 2021-03-26T15:53:09+00:00

Sounds like depression. Get your sleep right first and then go from there. Dont be afraid of benzodiazepines.

Title	Lost
Author	use2losing
Upvotes	9
Comments	19
Date	March 26, 2021 6:03 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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