Getting close to the end

MGTOW_and_Bitcoin · 2021-02-07T14:28:23+00:00

Your feelings are quite typical of mgtow post red pill rage. After you've realized most of your motivation came from some deformed hyper-masculine competition for the top vagina, a lot of men struggle with meaning because such a journey requires that we pass through a real existential crisis.

It may seem almost superficial to have to admit that regardless of our lofty ideals that men lose their motivation to contribute to a society that is inherently based on misandry. That the dreams that we had we're such that we were looking to display what women want to use in men.

In existentialism there happens to be other forms of existential crisis moments in our lives where our most basic values come into question or are broken down. This is a well-researched area of all human lives, which deals with our mortality, our cosmological insignificance, are fundamental disconnect with any reservoir of meaning, etc.

You are on a heroic Journey that few people have the courage to face. Most people will fall back into the comforting lies they need to push on down the easy path of culturally approved narratives. But once you pass through this you will gain the power to craft your own meaning in a very nietzschean way.

The thing about moments like this is that you simply have to look at all of this and say yes to life. In my opinion real courage is formed not by giving up but by making a kind of Sisyphus or stoic decision to forgo every comforting myth and making your life heroic on your own terms. And you will know when you have arrived because a kind of existential hero does not require any type of evil to vanquish. ( because real evil comes into this world at the hands of people trying to rid the world of evil) ......just don't be that guy.

You're not in some kind of doldrums of meaninglessness you're actually standing on the possibilities of your own self-love.

stabitandsee · 2021-02-07T09:57:41+00:00

Find an addiction to something positive and do it for you as self exploration. You are the end result of a huge chain of ancestors. Personally I found a bit of martial discipline (kickboxing and boxing) got me back on track then I discovered yoga and shamanism but I tend to treat every thing light heartedly and goof around with aerialist skills and even polefitness, acroyoga and animal movements because it's all fun and we need some fun in this place!

2021-02-07T17:30:41+00:00

First : Are you in good health condition ? lots of time, depression is linked to a lifestyle that destroy your health : crappy food, not enough physical efforts, drugs, alcohol, watching too much TV or internet, porn, too much fap, not enough sleep, ...

VestigialHead · 2021-02-07T11:33:24+00:00

Go and find somewhere you can volunteer to help others less fortunate.

Yes there are people less fortunate than you. :)

It will really give you a boost giving back to others without expecting any reward. Do not boast about it or expect anything for it. Just the act of doing is what is required.

Darkmaster85845 · 2021-02-07T10:25:05+00:00

I have friends, a gf, goals, yet my problem is that I never seem to be good at anything, I'm in my late thirties and I haven't made it in anything. Everything I've tried I failed at. I'm struggling financially and totally stagnant.

Honestly I feel just like you even with all the things you think you'd need to be happy. There's not a magic pill to make everything right. I guess contentment comes from a mindset you hold within yourself which makes you appreciate the little things and be a positive person who emanates good vibes around you . If you're constantly focusing on what you think you lack then you're always in a negative state of mind which becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. However how do you change your mindset when you feel that life is being shit. Maybe eventually it gets to a point where you're in such a rut that it's impossible to get out of the vicious cycle. I myself haven't found a way out yet. Wish I could help more.

2021-02-07T10:58:01+00:00

For me it's music and lifting, and I am trying to get involved in animal welfare, volunteering at shelters and the like. These things bring me a lot of joy just for their own sake. Find the things you enjoy, maybe you know them already or, if you don't, maybe you just need to try some things. Think about what you would do if you won the lottery, had enough money that you never had to work again. After you were done with partying and buying things, what would you actually want to do with your time?

Bourbonandcigars06 · 2021-02-07T14:10:11+00:00

This may be hard to read but is same thing many others and myself try to convey many times. Others cannot provide validation or make you happy. This is from within and we all have good and bad days.

This comes from work, getting satisfaction from activities,, exercising even if for walks,, what you enjoy, exercise, weight, drinking enough water and chemistry of your body like diabetes or certain malnutrition or possible mental health. Again its hard to hear but we cannot find that for you and you have to figure it out for yourself just like we do

This is not really a mgtow subject and is emotional health and suggest to seek help from them.

treymills330 · 2021-02-07T14:49:28+00:00

Simple. Find it. Obtain it. It starts by searching first and you're there at least. Me? Weed, exercise, anime, and since i cut out women, i actually spend more time with and value my family now

cleats4u · 2021-02-07T22:56:51+00:00

I just built a really nice computer. It was time to upgrade. Got the Ryzen 5 5600x. It took me practically all weekend, I got the RGB, the cable extensions, case, fans you name it. Got it up and running, had to update the bios on the new motherboard and it crashed. I bet I spent 15 to 20 hours learning shit I didn't know. And at the end I got a bad ass rig! Then I thought what if I had a girlfriend, or God forbid a wife. I wouldn't have been able to finish it. If I did we would have been broken up or divorced. There is so much I can do without a woman. Or I can do nothing at all. How would you like to have a harpy ragging your ass right now about what all...you don't do for her! You piss her off enough she is liable to go out and fuck somebody...probably someone you know. Or she will start playing "unavailable" games. There is so much you can accomplish for yourself and by yourself. I am so grateful every day for this because I remember what it was really like having women in my life for 20 minutes of pleasure once a week (or month) and the emotional/financial expense of it. Now I'm going to go watch the super bowl and not have to listen to any shit. What more could I ask for?

flyingphucker · 2021-02-08T10:42:28+00:00

Yo hmu. I’ll be your fucking friend dude. I’m an asshole but I have lots of money and I will treat you with kindness and respect. I’ll fucking take you to France with me for three months at the end of the year. I’ve had some fucked yo experiences too but I decided to make money and soak as many wonderful experiences as I can out of this life.

My son’s mother took him to NY when he was a baby, she tried to force me to move and I haven’t seen him in 5 years. Pick your damn head up and realize that men are the backbone of the entire world. Without us as a whole, everything would collapse. We all appreciate and respect your contribution. Big or small

TRPonlySubsBanTRPppl · 2021-02-07T14:24:49+00:00

You're a man. Face your problems. If you can't find a solution, you find a way to cope and accept.

a_quiet_accountant · 2021-02-07T18:21:51+00:00

it's the simple things. what do u enjoy doing?

cz_masterrace · 2021-02-07T22:02:05+00:00

Reinvent your life. Drastic change might be needed. Move states/countries. Live in the north and sit around eating burgers and playing video games? Move to somewhere tropical, unplug yourself from electronics, and work as a deck hand or some dive restaurant. Easy to fall into our routine- you need to escape it.

kanga573 · 2021-02-07T22:04:04+00:00

Find your joy. My take: We're on Earth for about 15 minutes, seemingly. Stick around - you never know how great it might get. The view out of the bus that is life can become interesting.

GTFO_Lmao · 2021-02-08T22:54:09+00:00

I get those same feels bro. It helps for me to restart and trace my steps to what I can be thankful for. Having gratitude for certain elements can be mentally helpful. Being alive is one.

Knock on wood, but I’m not strapped down in a hospital bed fighting for my life.

As far as I know I have no debilitating diseases or physical problems.

I have had a cavalcade of stupid, crappy relationships, but I don’t have to see any of those women anymore. Some of them are married to other guys. I am super glad I am not them. I appreciate the experiences I had with them, both good and bad. I learned not to blame them, I had my hand in the stupid crappiness. I am accountable.

Finding goals is hard when you are distracted. Start at a point of gratitude, empty your mind of negativity and explore your mind and find what you want.

grey-spyder · 2021-02-08T03:36:57+00:00

At 50 my x-monster had 5 lovers after 10 years and one kid. I was a mess, I got a hooker, traveled for months, met others, started working out, saving money, learning to play the 🎷 got testosterone replacement therapy and wow! I am the prize! Fuck all women (pump and dump) spin plates, live in abundance!!!

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-02-08T05:19:31+00:00

Is there something you feel like you have to do?

SilentQ2 · 2021-02-08T14:03:05+00:00

Here, check out this talk. It really helped me change things. The whole thing is good, but really hits home after the 39min mark. Even if you don't like the guy, he gives some great advice in this one.

https://youtu.be/gwUJHNPMUyU?t=2340

Syn-Ack-Attack · 2021-02-18T02:29:24+00:00

I might catch flak for this. You’re life is worth it. If you truly feel hopeless and helpless PLEASE go see a doctor. Depression is very real and it doesn’t make you any less of a man or a person. You’re a human being and your life has value. Society needs you. Please do all of us and yourself a favor. If you need help seek it out.

Title	Getting close to the end
Author	use2losing
Upvotes	10
Comments	33
Date	February 7, 2021 9:35 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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