This is a reply I've just written to a comment saying that men don't help eachother.

No, I've given a 10K loan to a friend in need once. He paid it back. No reason why men shouldn't help other men. One condition however, if the guy is married you know you support his wife - that's not the idea.

Another example, I've given male friends the possibility to "earn" some alms by selling some of my stuff online "on commission". They earned it and did something useful for me.