There was a time I thought it was all about chasing girls , trying to get them to like you and all that and then it hit me after for the first time in my life as a young man asked out a girl and she said "no" at that point I wondered "why" but I didn't feel like she will give a clear answer as this lady probably fan girls over Korean actors and anime boys with white hair and cold expression . I was a weak boy , I cried, boo hoo my crush didn't like me and then it she hit me up asking Hi ...how are you .A girl that I had asked out was hitting me and acting like she hadn't rejected me 3 hours ago it was like I had become her emotional support animal .I was angry and frustrated , it dawned on me that the girl wants to keep me as a "friend" aka friend zone the shit out of me . she must have enjoyed the attention I give her and loves having orbiters . I had to evaluate the situation , cut my losses and be done with her , it was hard , you see it takes discipline to stop caring about a girl you once cared about but I finally did , I just blocked her on social media and I am focusing on my self and my future She is probably wondering why I am not replying to her texts for the past 5 day , and I want it to turn into years , I can't keep a woman that only takes my time but doesn't offer hers . I feel like a different person , this sub calls it being red pilled .