Women only care about themselves and their children. You need to do something which provides you with some return on investment on a personal level which is what our hobbies and pastime activities are for. We men come in this world alone and we are always alone no matter what. It is upto us how to make the best of it.

TLDR: Women don't care about men, they just want to raise their status in the society. Do something fulfiling which makes your time worthwhile.