Trouble Focusing

TheTrueTylerDurden · 2021-03-22T02:00:52+00:00

cut them off bro. change your number. when calling to change your number, you can get a number changed for free if you say you’re being harassed. just a fyi. ive been in your position and did this to a toxic family, friends and co workers. my ex had a threesome with both my male and female supervisors. cut em off! its the best!

directionalbias · 2021-03-22T01:53:10+00:00

If you care enough to keep the current dynamic of your relationships, then you don't have to do anything.

If these relationships have evolved to be toxic or otherwise unhelpful to you, then cut off ties.

You say they are family and friends but they don't behave like it and you don't seem to appreciate them as such.

sqiop · 2021-03-22T04:25:34+00:00

Go no contact.

My family and "friends" didnt believe in me . When money started to fall to my bank account, all of these parasites started to come to me like being supportive and all that bullshit.

I even moved to another place to rent, and never told them where i live

shru_Kay · 2021-03-22T13:51:32+00:00

I just got away from everyone, changed number. Only a selected few have them. If somehow people call in, all they hear from me is talks about how they are managing money and their relationships, are they giving themselves time to heal their mind, focusing on improving their finances? Are they valuing their time? Then if someone says "you don't talk to us" I'm like "I don't talk to anybody. Without a purpose of fruitful outcome. I'm sorry if you feel talking to me will change your life but only you can do that, all I can do is give you some of my perspective however, for me to be able to do that you have to approach me first because that will then enable me to give you any advice."

Most people feel overwhelmed or get bored of these talks and don't call back.. those who still do I value them because they want to do something positive with their lives or give me importance too.

Idea is to have relationship with like minded people, no one will be 100% aligned with what you believe in, you should however maintain some family connection because it you do have something important to loose. Don't forget your roots, you don't have to like it in its entirety but preserve the things that you feel were the good things.

Be alone don't be lonely. Be happy, not salty. Most importantly, have "inner peace"- master Oogway.

tiger-tael · 2021-03-22T18:26:47+00:00

Behind the obvious stuff here, here’s the unspoken problem:

Stop looking at porn. It’s demonic.

I didn’t say stop masturbation.

Porn is a weapon. Israel used it on Palestine repeatedly. Look it up.

yamahantx700 · 2021-03-23T01:18:22+00:00

I don't know you well enough to answer that. Sounds like you've got it figure out yourself.

If you're losing sleep over it(literally), then that's your subconscious telling you to do it and get it over with.

Title	Trouble Focusing
Author	TheTrueTylerDurden
Upvotes	8
Comments	21
Date	March 22, 2021 1:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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