I’ve seen countless examples of women liking guys who are indifferent to them. And it seems to me that this is true but have any of you ever asked why?

To understand this we first need to understand why simps aren’t respected by women. Simps do simp things for a girl to make up for their difference in value(her being higher and his being lower). That way the simp behavior elevates him to her level and therefore he hopes that she will see him as an equal and date him. But she acknowledges that he is doing these simp things to make up for something which logically would mean that he is lower value ergo no respect. Now a higher value woman might keep the simp around if he is doing enough to elevate himself to her level. But his actions are unsustainable. This is because she will always demand more from him until he can’t provide enough and therefore get divorced/breakup/cheating.

So now we get to the part of indifference. In my opinion indifference makes someone have a higher perceived value, regardless of what actual value they are. This is because the women think that because he doesn’t care about them, that he has better options at his own level which would mean that those girls are higher value then her and therefore so is he. And as we all know, hypergamy does it’s thing.

I have only read stories that shows this is true and logically it also makes sense but I have yet to find an example of this in real life. Any input is much appreciated.