What do I even do?

Maximum_Afternoon · 2020-12-27T19:28:51+00:00

Here's new advice for you: one year isn't long. 5 is, or 10, or 20, but not 1. So stop letting X number of months not going to bars and concerts get to you.

Understandably, a year seems long when you're young, which you are.

DeakinFrost · 2020-12-28T05:21:22+00:00

I went through this my man,

And now I produce beats, make music, found a dope coach for body building n training, he convinced me to do my diploma in fitness n health and start training people to,

And right now he’s my only positive influence but it’s all I need, that and the Internet

Just do it man, buy Ableton, load it up, throw headphones on, open YouTube, find basic tutorials and just start making shit

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-12-28T07:19:34+00:00

Yeah, it sucks man. You are counting on people (governor, teachers, whoever) and they are all letting you down; as is to be expected. Fend for yourself, and get used to life giving you shit.

RatingsOutOfTen · 2020-12-27T22:59:59+00:00

Maybe try gardening. You'll get to provide time and attention into something that will give back to you, and it will be something alive that needs you.

There are a lot of directions you can take gardening. Food, Bonsai, flowers, trees, landscaping, plant cultivation and making new plants from seed and cutting to sell at flea markets or something.

The reason I bring these up is because these hobbies are a natural skill that every human on the planet used to know at least a little bit. Also, these hobbies are relatively cheap if you do some key things to save money on them. They are also hobbies that have communities. You can quickly find people to trade plants with.

In fact, if we are in the same area, I'd be willing to give you some free plants and seeds. I definitely recommend assuming you will fail at gardening initially and not investing much into it, because there are just some simple mistakes that a lot of beginners make.

Jake-Orion · 2020-12-28T13:44:58+00:00

For the friends department, many of my "reliable" friends [I.E. the ones who would bail me out of jail if it came to it] are all 10+ years older than me (38). Granted, we all shared the same work environment (defense contractor, driver, etc) but I found it is easier to make friends with older peers rather than the ones in my age bracket.

The ones in my age bracket are too busy getting shafted with divorce, being dominated by their wives, or many are just still immature to "grow up" and accept responsibility in their lives.

Older friends are already settled in their relationships and/or have nothing but time to hang out since they are already retired. I get friendship/wisdom from them and they get somebody who provides entertainment of my road rage exploits of retarded license holders almost daily.

You would be surprised how much in common you would have with the older generation. I can't say it will work for you, but I don't see you having anything else to lose at this point.

MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2020-12-29T14:23:20+00:00

shouldn’t have these feelings at al

They are feelings and they can be controlled. If you cannot control your feelings then take up counseling.

what to do anymore besides go monk and delete all social media.

Social isolation is making you bitter and you want to dial it up? How is this even logical.

Troll_God · 2020-12-29T22:04:55+00:00

You sound sexually frustrated and potentially conflicted because you’re gay.

burnett-lignon · 2020-12-27T19:56:05+00:00

Get another part time job; try to make it something you enjoy or will learn from, possibly welding. It could pull you out of your self absorption and give you a little more money.

Meatl0af59 · 2020-12-27T21:58:32+00:00

Stop trying to look for friends. Friendship is something that grows over time based on what you two have in common i.e Hobbies, school and etc.

But regardless, you need to be able to find comfort in being alone and enjoy your hobbies. If you don't have enjoyable hobbies, get some new ones and no watching movies isnt a hobby, it's a waste of time, unless you are getting something useful out of them. Read books, learn about how to make more money and eventually you will meet people along the way who would want to be your friend and hangout with you.

Title	What do I even do?
Author	Meatl0af59
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	December 27, 2020 7:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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