Where's the catch?

Impossible-asset · 2020-02-06T03:36:55+00:00

Dont get married and dont cohabite and use protection.

Have fun and dont get too attached.

NakedValhallaBoy · 2020-02-06T03:47:14+00:00

write down a list of rules for yourself and put it in the same drawer / lock box you keep things like your birth certificate. this is your list of rules that you must never break with this relationship. The key elements should be, ALWAYS use protection, never cohabitate, never get married, etc.

add more that you think are important to you and your lifestyle. Now the reason you write these down is because this is how women sucker you in. they present themselves as exactly what you want and what you are looking for. Then you find out one thing they expect of you that you don't really like. But after years of being together you think 'you know its not a big deal, its just ONE THING. Then after that it is another thing. after that, its a third thing. Then you are eventually married.

and that is why you never compromise on ANY of these rules. because if you will compromise on one you will compromise on another. writing them down is the only way to promise yourself that this is what you stand for, other wise you will just rationalize that 'i didn't really commit to this one, it was just something i was thinking about'.

Pankonuss · 2020-02-06T03:53:15+00:00

Catch is the erosion of who you are overtime.

Your own biology disposes you .... a woman is merely an external manifestation of your own biological drive to sacrifice your well-being.

You ought to laugh at my words but when time comes just try your hardest to remember of you were before you got involved.

And never let her realize you are doing it.

When time comes, eject. If you wait for things to change, you are a statistic.

Best wishes.

SocialAssassin4Hire · 2020-02-06T03:53:02+00:00

Just make sure you cheat on her every month so you don’t get attached 😂

Sid_Insidious · 2020-02-06T05:08:41+00:00

Many females who are not interested in kids become suddenly very interested in kids when an oopsie baby comes along. And after conception, as a man, you have ZERO reproductive rights. Also remember that she's financially better off NOW. She can change that overnight. If she's ovulating and your swimmers are swimming, pregnancy can happen. Women who "say" they are on birth control get pregnant all the time. I will leave it at that...

If her financial success is from a career, imagine this:

She gets an oopsie baby and decides to work part time at the bistro instead of trying to make partner at the law firm so she can spend more time with junior. Suddenly, you are the primary breadwinner and the government sees you as a "get out of paying welfare free" card for the next 18-25 years. Things with people, especially women, are fluid and fleeting. Her situation today might be totally different in 2 or 5 years.

Now, if she's from a wealthy family, in that case have lots of sex and eat lots of good food. Just be careful because rich people food causes clogged arteries and nasty gas. But the alcohol they drink is simply splendid. :-) If dad is into skeet shooting, you should try that. Or polo. Do some cool rich-people stuff and report back! :-)

MaestroLogical · 2020-02-06T08:01:08+00:00

I can't begin to tell you how many times I was with a child free type that spends a few hours with her friends little baby and instantly becomes deranged over it.

It becomes all they can think about. Baby fever.

I've had a few lie to me about having a hysterectomy, only to 'miraculously' end up pregnant weeks later from some ONS.

I've had no less than 3 "I'll never marry, it's stupid" types end up leaving me when I wouldn't marry them 4 or 5 years later. They all start out serious about not wanting to be married but after attending their friends lavish weddings and hearing about the tax benefits and enduring the side eyes and pursed lips of their friends when the topic comes up... They all start craving it.

Some because they feel like it means you don't 'value' them enough.

Others because they 'finally realized how important it is to me'

AWALT. AWALT. AWALT.

It's just human nature.

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-02-06T10:33:12+00:00

Be careful of the old i dont want kids thing...

ironmanknowsjoe · 2020-02-06T13:56:24+00:00

Baby rabies is real.

Tell her your going to get a vasectomy. See what happens.

NotherThrowaway284 · 2020-02-06T15:48:35+00:00

The following is a tricky maxim, but I swear by it: Always be cautious but never be paranoid.

jeetz09 · 2020-02-06T17:02:04+00:00

She will eventually treat you like you are beneath her due to the financial differences.

Otolove · 2020-02-06T17:16:25+00:00

She souns like a trap, enjoy I guess.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-02-06T19:11:50+00:00

Don't move in together and enjoy your turn as long as you want!

MuleFool42 · 2020-02-07T22:13:46+00:00

It sounds pretty good. Let it play out and see what happens. Just don't ever get married or move in together. It presents way too much risk for you, and besides, that's when things start to go stale because you're living together and take each other for granted, let yourselves go physically, etc...

Otherwise, you might be on to a good thing.

2020-02-08T22:26:02+00:00

Tell her you love her and you not cucking around! 🤣

FaxNudes · 2020-02-13T10:51:10+00:00

You guys are so delusional it's INSANE. Just break up with her, she deserves better than you. You're a shitty person and she probably realizes it and sees you as a temporary boyfriend anyways. Get real. God I'm glad you're gonna write a silly list of the "rules of happiness" written only by the loneliest and saddest nobodies on the internet. You're so lost. You seriously believe this woman is gonna use you to get pregnant to downgrade her career? BRO. I'm embarrassed for you. 😂

Title	Where's the catch?
Author	Pankonuss
Upvotes	1
Comments	29
Date	February 6, 2020 3:35 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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