New to TRP, like the idea but actual strategies are eluding me.

I've been unhappy with the lack of sex with my wife. For years. My fault I see now, since I even stopped asking for a long time.

So now a few weeks ago I have started asking, and after getting rejected a few times I've said something like, "Look, I need to have sex" as part of the conversation.

Yesterday my wife decides she wants to "talk about it" and I can tell she is starting to give in to my stunning manliness, but she still wants to feel in control so she wants to complain about a few things first.

She starts in about how my saying "I want to have sex" is making her insecure, like I'm going to go do something about it if I don't get it from her.

Holy crap, I'm thinking, did I just "dread game" her? Sweet! But then I didn't know what I should say.

Do I say "hell yeah, I'm going to blow this wad into someone but I'd prefer it be you," or "oh no baby, you know you are my only one"?

I chose the second. I said something like, "What, where would you get an idea like that? You know I'd never cheat on you," though it was with something of a smart-ass air about it. Then I went into the "aww my cutie is worried" and pinched her cheek and gave her a hug.

Did I play that right?