Here is a list of ways my life has improved since swallowing the red pill 3-4 months ago. I know I am still new, but at least taken significant steps in the journey. I want to start a discussion for how other member's lives have improved and give the new guys ideas and encouragement. It would also be nice to hear from veteran members to see how their lives have improved over the long term.

Individual

  1. Playing team sports for the first time since college with an indoor soccer team.
  2. Meeting new guys to hang out with playing team sports.
  3. Lifting at the gym 3-6 times a week.
  4. Playing tennis with friends every other week.
  5. Not feeling guilty leaving the house to do these activities (likely the main thing holding me back since the kids arrived).
  6. Results. I was never overweight, but have lost about 8 pounds and put on visible muscle including the abs which is awesome.
  7. Because of the results I get random girls smiling at me and eye fucking me, compliments from friends and family, enjoy how I look in the mirror (vanity but don't care), and just generally feel better.
  8. Took a trip with just the guys to go fishing for a long weekend.
  9. Reading and learning, specifically the side bar material but also pursing my interest in history through pod-casts.
  10. Stopped drinking and being social without alcohol (not for everyone, but has helped me on the way).
  11. Hanging out with the guys more and not feeling guilty about it.
  12. Being more open in social interactions.

Wife - (Note, my history just shows the bad stuff, the challenges, and fights. Here is the good stuff).

  1. Better sex and more open about what I want in sex. (I was never a dead bedroom, just unfulfilled).
  2. The ability to say no.
  3. Defined boundaries.
  4. Much less fighting.
  5. Recognizing what shit tests are and how to respond.
  6. She defers to me more often.
  7. She has started to go to the gym and work out, following my lead.
  8. Generally she is just more enjoyable to be around.

Business

  1. Working harder and striving to improve in business.
  2. More direct with clients.
  3. Setting goals and achieving them.
  4. Owning up to mistakes I make and fixing them.
  5. Making more money.

How has taking the red pill improved your life?