First some background.

I'm 28 and my fiance is also 28. We have a two year old together and live in the same house. I've read MAP, married sex life primer, sex God method, the mystery method, the art of seduction, half way through NMMNG, How to Win Friends and Influence People, and others. I'm currently 183 lbs maybe 17% body fat and I can deadlift 435. Well groomed, eat healthy, get lots of attention from other women, game is good. (Slept with over 100 women before I got tied down). I've also been taking a break from lifting cause my joints are killing me. I still walk, run, and stretch though.

I have a problem with my fiance. She doesn't eat healthy although she's not fat but she does have a little growth forming on her tummy. Never takes initiative to work out. She's still constantly naggy and bitchy throwing shit tests at me left and right. (Which I admit I have been DEERing lately.) But she just makes up problems that aren't there and it's coming to the point where I almost just want to leave her. I've tried so hard for the sake of our kid and I've been pretty much checked out. I'll talk to hot women in public in front of her and talk about girls at work. Sex life is non existent. I don't watch porn very often and I'm currently trying nofap to see if it helps me become attracted to her again. (Cavieat to that is when she actually tried to be pretty and sexy she can be) I don't ever want to reward her with sex until she gets her shit together.

Past few days have been rough. She calls me an asshole because she knows it gets to me. I'm beginning to thing this is all actually a comfort test because she knows that I'm about to leave her. I know I'm not doing everything right as this red pill stuff can be hard to keep in mind when dealing with the stresses of a kid and life stuff. Just looking for some second opinions from you guys. Wanna see what I'm missing. You are usually assholes to me and it sets me straight so let er rip.

PS. She's been giving me the cold shoulder because we "never finished talking" not sure if I should be cocky funny and DARE my way out of the conversation or if she just needs reassuring and I should sit down and listen to her feel feels.