The shit tests have started

weakandsensitive · 2017-11-28T02:24:17+00:00

No value to read - belongs at askMRP

[deleted] · 2017-11-27T23:08:17+00:00

All women shit test. Something off here

2ndal · 2017-11-27T23:04:18+00:00

It sounds like your problem is not with how she is shit testing you but with your expectation that she should give a shit and cut you some slack because poor lil guy had a rough day at work.

If you've had 1.5 years of no shit tests, on one hand that's good, I guess, but on the other it has softened you into thinking you deserve it to last forever.

We say AWALT for a reason. The advice you need to take is no different than what is given to the others. Expect her shit tests to continue forever, use them to guide your progress and hone your abilities to be a superior man, and playfully pass them while you continue to own your shit.

Rian_Stone · 2017-11-27T23:23:53+00:00

A shit test is flirting, to see if youre fuckable.

This is just regular shit, and yelling fails both

BobbyPeru · 2017-11-27T23:54:52+00:00

It all seems petty and prodding.

Learn the difference between a shit test and her just being bitchy.

How do you handle? Quit giving so many fucks about what she thinks.

[deleted] · 2017-11-27T23:57:37+00:00

Thanks for the replies guys I agree with all of it

redsprinklersystem · 2017-11-28T00:30:32+00:00

Realise that you could have had that place as clean as a surgical theatre, but if she feels like being a snarky bitch it still won't be good enough because its not done the way she does it.

Continue to own your shit, but give waaaay less fucks about her words and feelz.

SickOfIt518 · 2017-11-28T00:38:59+00:00

Sounds about par. All women have expiration dates and it's usually about 2 years in so you got a couple extra bonus months. Everything about you will annoy them, like breathing for instance.

Senor_Martillo · 2017-11-28T02:08:08+00:00

Ok this is a little off topic, but was life saving realization for me: hire a house keeper. If you’re working two jobs and she’s got one full time, you’re both presumably adding more value than the 10-15:hr a house keeper will cost.

Of course, stay on alert for shit tests and unnecessary bitching, but for real. Allocate your time appropriately and pay others to do shitty low value work like scrubbing the shower.

[deleted] · 2017-11-28T02:17:33+00:00

You didn’t mention you’re married, but you did say you’re living together. Can you afford to live on your own because if you can you should. If you aren’t married then she’s your girlfriend. Your girlfriend isn’t your “first mate”. You two aren’t bound by contract and you aren’t captain of any ship. So if your girlfriend doesn’t make you happy every time you see her then you should fire her ass.

RedWhacker · 2017-11-28T02:29:41+00:00

What's the point of living with someone if your absent 7 days a week?

Get her to clean the house and kindly fuck off after she's done.

Title	The shit tests have started
Author	neveragain1988
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	November 27, 2017 10:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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