Oi

I am wondering how long some guys paths were to have their relationship turn around for them from negative to positive.

I am also wondering how long some guys put up with the shit tests etc even when they acquired high SMV and had to next.

I get the dread levels are approx 2 months for every year of marriage - so had some thought they got to a point and proved to themselves they changed and still didn't see a change for their relationship?

Did some of you that actually got thru it put up with stuff for 2/3 years before results?

I read some OYS from past members and it seems like after 6-12months some just didn't come back or were already going for a D.