Hi. So I'm dating a girl and it's kind of my first time on a relationship. We haven't had sex yet and though I didn't think I would mind that, yesterday we cuddled for the night and the day before we had gone to a park, lots of making out. The result is that by today's morning I had severe pain in my testicles so much so that I could not really walk straight without hurting. For a reason, she had to stay for a while and I couldn't, you know, relieve myself, so I was left with the pain for hours and hours.

When I eventually did it, it was kind of hard to get, painful and only after a few hours was the original pain gone. We haven't talked about it because she hasn't done it yet and I don't want to spook her with sexual sh-t but-... I don't want to masturbate either; I have to pull up videos otherwise I can be there for days, and I feel bad looking at other women to do so

I don't know, what do you recommend me do?