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Im close to giving up

July 5, 2022

I have almost given up. My ex girlfriend is a pain in the ass, does whatever is in her power to keep my son away from me. My boss is a scumbag. My financial situation is absolutely shit and my account is already near 0 due to low business at work and higher prices cause war in Europe.

I’m not sure what to do at this point, I can feel that it’s all tearing me up from the inside. It hurts to say it, but I’m close to giving up on my son in order to survive all of this shit myself. Anyone tried anything like this with some advice?

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Title Im close to giving up
Author Rich-Ad620
Upvotes 24
Comments 3
Date July 5, 2022 4:43 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/MenSupportMen
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[–]Reddit1984Censorship 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I dont have kids or partner but it occurs to me this is what i would do:
Move far away from the situation to heal and work on myself while gathering valuable ''evidence'' of the situation (such as evidence of your ex gf being a pain in the ass), to then show this evidence to my son in the future when he turns 18 so he can understand why i had to leave the situation and to show him who his mother really is.
And if i was sucessfull in rebuilding my life maybe i would be able to offer him a nice help in return for not having a father while growing up like a car or pay for college and so on if that makes sense.

[–]Rich-Ad620[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel like I have had every single scenario through my head. First off my son is almost 6, he is obsessed with me, I’m pretty much the only male figure in his life. My struggle is the fact that she was raised by a single mom and her argument is ‘and I ended up fine without a father’.

I can’t leave him, but in the end it might be the only option. Im getting more and more broken every day. Im currently looking for a new job, but until then I will have to settle with my asshole boss, sadly.

You can’t even imagine how crazy my ex is. The things she does and says it’s insane, I can’t catch a break.

[–]UnHope20 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hi sorry can you be more specific about your ex being a pain and boss being a scumbag? Are they being abusive, exploitative vindictive or something else?

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