Generally, fathers are supposed to build a boy up as a man. There are cases where people have grown with their mothers, with men who don't know any better or just alone. The effects are bad because of biological differences in behavior. Example, a mother asking her son to sit with legs crossed. Lady, that guy has balls crushing there.

I saw a unique case. I'm not saying it has anything to do with anyone. But this might help us.

So, in a relationship power game, the man cheats on wife. Wife instead of thinking that this man may not raise the right man of my son decided to play a power game by taking away rights of the father away. He's not allowed to discipline or touch the child unless she's not around and it happened for some times.

Now this guy grew up as a woman but in a man's body. No he's not trans. He's just able to think, act, walk, talk and be exactly how a woman is. Believe me when he got bullied in school, teachers will come to aid but only temporarily.

He's grown into a full fledged woman just because he didn't know any better.

What did the father do?

Nothing, the father decided that the son will only bring more trouble if he kept him anywhere near. So carried on with his life on the side all while the son grew up into a woman.

If I was friends with this man's father I'd have held him accountable. What would you have done?