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Another day, another instance proving misandry is mainstream and promoted. Man tells things he lost after divorce with a woman who cheated on him three times. Hypocrisy and misandry ensues in the replies by women. Marriage is a zero sum game for men. Stay away.

cryptonalyst · 2021-04-05T16:39:37+00:00

Also, fuck twitter. https://mobile.twitter.com/i/status/1378753920189751296...

cryptonalyst

April 5, 2021

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Title	Another day, another instance proving misandry is mainstream and promoted. Man tells things he lost after divorce with a woman who cheated on him three times. Hypocrisy and misandry ensues in the replies by women. Marriage is a zero sum game for men. Stay away.
Author	cryptonalyst
Upvotes	51
Comments	40
Date	April 5, 2021 4:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/mkowwr/another_day_another_instance_proving_misandry_is/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/another-day-another-instance-proving-misandry-is.831301 https://theredarchive.com/post/831301

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[–]unknown_docter 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago* (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]swampwitch116 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

We don’t victim blame

But some of you do, actually.

If you hate men and want to act like we are somehow evil for not supporting sexism

What? Where did you get that from?

This is literally the classic example of the feminists

I'm not a feminist lol

never wanting anyone to talk about men’s problems

Where did I say that?

You represent the reason I made that comment

I think you are very much confused. Maybe don't assume so much about me when you know nothing about me :)

Again, if you don't like what I said, I just switched men with women from your own post, that makes you a sexist hypocrite. You can't say you're afraid of all women ever and get mad when someone says the same about men. Lol you guys are being what you hate most, an intolerant sexist hate sub, just like pinkpillfeminism. Congrats on being part of that!

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[–]unknown_docter 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]swampwitch116 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

though you spun my comment into being sexist

The only thing I did was replace female with male. If you find that your own ideas are sexist when in is the opposite sex, that's hypocritical.

I don’t fear all women,

So that's why you don't want to date? Because you don't fear all women? ....?

Also how is this sub sexist?

The sexist comments here get upvoted. I can add you to my list! I'll post every highly upvoted sexist comment from this sub I find right here for ya.

What’s wrong with supporting men’s rights?

Uh nothing. Never said there was. Good attempt at strawman, I guess.

we don’t hate women we just support men because no one else will

But some of you do hate women, and some of you are just scared of women, either way, it's wrong.

You’re mixing us up with 4chan and r/MGTOW

No, I'm not.

[–]unknown_docter 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

When did I say I don’t want to date women?

I just have anxiety when it comes to it and I don’t see what’s wrong with me talking about it

And what exactly are the sexist comments that get upvoted? Most the upvotes comments here speak out against awful things

If not wanting men to raped without justice,wanting men to not have disadvantage in the legal system, not wanting men to be more likely homeless, not wanting men to not have a place for mental health treatment, and not wanting men to be seen as inherited evil by society fits your definition of morally wrong then honestly you disgust me because that’s exactly the things we and the comments on this sub speak out against

The problem with you spinning my comment is that women get tons of support when they are raped,abused, or divorced

I’ve never seen a guy get that unless it was from this sub, so your comment just feels like it’s trying to undermine male issues and trying to act like women have a disadvantage in something they don’t, you might not be feminist but you certainly act like one

Women do have issues I’m not going to deny that but acting like a male problem is a female problem is what you did wrong

[–]swampwitch116 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

When did I say I don’t want to date women?

Uh your original post.....

and I don’t see what’s wrong with me talking about it

There's nothing wrong with talking about it, in a way that isn't considered sexist. Once more, if you found my statement sexist but not yours, that's being hypocritical.

And what exactly are the sexist comments that get upvoted?

....again, I will post them to this thread when I see them.

not wanting men to raped without justice,wanting men to not have disadvantage in the legal system, not wanting men to be more likely homeless, not wanting men to not have a place for mental health treatment, and not wanting men to be seen as inherited evil by society fits your definition of morally wrong

Uhm it doesn't and I never said or implied that it does. Let's stay on topic, how about.

exactly the things we and the comments on this sub speak out against

Sometimes, sometimes not.

The problem with you spinning my comment is that women get tons of support when they are raped,abused, or divorced

Sometimes. You seem to love generalizing large groups of people. This isn't conducive to an intelligent debate.

your comment just feels like it’s trying to undermine male issues and trying to act like women have a disadvantage in something they don’t,

How so? I'm just pointing out the sexist nature of your comment. And yes, some women are at a disadvantage, you and your generalizations, again!

Women do have issues I’m not going to deny that but acting like a male problem is a female problem is what you did wrong

So women getting raped in a relationship isn't a problem to you. Got it. Well I see how you really are, then! This is the blatant sexism I was talking about. Thanks for proving me right once again. You guys never fail!

[–]unknown_docter1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yet again you spun my comment

women getting raped is a problem

But not getting support afterwards is a male specific problem

sure it happens to some women but that’s like saying making fun of someone for having lots of sex isn’t a female problem

Can you tell me what sexist about my original comment, I just said I have anxiety when it comes to dating women due to how easy it is for women to ruin a mans life

I don’t understand what’s wrong with what I said, please tell me and maybe I’ll agree with you after some thought

As for generalizing as I said I’ve never seen a guy get support unless it was from this and I’ve rarely seen women not get support

I’m going off of what I’ve seen if I saw more women not getting attention I would probably post it on r/feminism if I was a women

As much as I want to take you seriously it’s hard for me to do that when you want to interpret that as me saying it doesn’t matter when a women gets raped

No wonder why you hate this sub you want to have the worst interpretation of every comment

[–]swampwitch1160 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

But not getting support afterwards is a male specific problem

It really isn't, though.

sure it happens to some women but that’s like saying making fun of someone for having lots of sex isn’t a female problem

Uhm, no being raped and then not believed is not the same as the fact that slut is a sexist term. These two things have 0 to do with each other.

Can you tell me what sexist about my original comment

If you can tell me what was sexist about my comment, then you'll have your answer.

for generalizing as I said I’ve never seen a guy get support unless it was from this and I’ve rarely seen women not get support

Your anecdotal evidence isn't fact.

going off of what I’ve seen if I saw more women not getting attention I would probably post it on r/feminism if I was a women

You'd just get perma banned for saying it happens to men too, or something. They are a sexist sub.

when you want to interpret that as me saying it doesn’t matter when a women gets raped

I mean, how else could I interpret that? We are talking about women being raped and not believed and you said it's a non issue.

No wonder why you hate this sub you want to have the worst interpretation of every comment

Maybe if you guys made less sexist statement, I wouldn't have to be commenting so much about sexism here.

[–]unknown_docter1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I don’t know how to make it clear to you that a women getting raped and not believed or supported is a problem in my opinion

I just said it happens too guys more, ok?

I don’t care what gender it happens to, ether way it’s a problem

But this is a men’s rights sub so that’s what I talked about here, if we were on a different sub I would have called it a problem in general

This is what I mean by you spinning what I say, you somehow interpreted me saying it happens to guys more as me saying I don’t think it happens to women and that I don’t care about it happening to them

You interpreted me saying I have a bit anxiety about dating women because she could ruin my life easily as me being sexist even though I just pointed out it was easy for a women to do it to me

Please try reading what I’m saying without your already preset belief of “this guy hates women”

This is my last comment in this tread because I have a feeling no matter what I say you will spin it to be awful despite me being a active supporter of women’s rights(I don’t post on the subs mainly because I think a lot of them are bad but I have attended protests pre pandemic and have signed tons of petitions)

I will say however that I did miscorrectly call you sexist, so I’ll give you that

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[+]cryptonalyst1 points 5 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

One of the most like replies, “Are we supposed to feel sorry for him? He’s making tiktok videos...”

Makes me mad honestly.

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Yas lets go I <3 misandry

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