There seems to be a lot of negativity in this sub, and reading all of these posts about men who repeatedly get raked over the coals really makes my blood boil. Unfortunately, this is currently the world we live in and hopefully the marriage laws and the way society views men will change (in our lifetime lol).

In the meantime... what have I learned from it all? I think I've figured out what my options are and wanted to share with everyone some examples of just how I am living the good life by avoiding the traditional norms.

I love women , especially the cute one's ;).... but I have no interest in marriage whatsoever because it's clearly a huge financial risk. Same goes with letting a woman live with me as common law. I like to keep things risk free so that I don't have to pay alimony in the future if shit hits the fan. There have been a few women that I really wanted to live with, but really... you can still have a great close relationship living in separate residences, so that's the way things are for now.

During sex I never ejaculate in a woman, even if she says she's on birth control or has a hysterectomy or whatever.... Even if you have scientific proof that she can't have kids, just make a point to never do it.... trust me on this one ;) You don't have that luxury. Ejaculate into a condom and flush the condom so she can't get to your soldiers. Sounds ridiculous, I know.... and If you have a good career you Really have to be careful on this one.

So yeah here I am at 32... met a great woman that wants to live with me and one day get married. Do I tell this woman there's no fucking way that's happening??? No I don't. I like her too much and I want to keep her around, knowing that she'd probably leave if she found out I don't want marriage. I'll hold off as long as possible on common law / marriage/ getting fucked over financially if things don't work out. In the meantime i'm living life as good as it gets and i'm really happy to have learned from this subreddit and a lot of friends who have gone through the mill.

Cheers to all you guys fighting for mens rights. There's one thing we'll always have that feminists don't , and that, my friends, is logic.

Edit: thanks for the replies.