Asking for pointers

CompetitiveOffer5339 · 2024-09-15T03:02:00+00:00

I’m one of these woman and here’s a few things I’ve noticed. For one they won’t find women hitting men funny, but men hitting women horrible. They’re probably gonna be way less obnoxious and probably treat your better. When you meet them you kinda just get the vibes. Either that or obvious signs, literally met a woman who when I said I missed the old days pausing stop showing me a book about how hard it was for house wives back in the day.

ag55ful · 2024-09-15T13:05:57+00:00

While there’s no definitive checklist, certain behavioral or verbal cues could potentially suggest misandrist attitudes, though they shouldn’t be confused with assertiveness or anger directed at societal structures of oppression:

Generalizing Negative Traits About Men: Frequent broad statements that label all men negatively (e.g., "all men are violent" or "all men are oppressors").
Dismissive or Hostile Attitudes Toward Men's Issues: Disregarding concerns like male mental health, workplace discrimination, or father's rights without consideration.
Avoidance of Male Interaction: An extreme unwillingness to engage with men in personal or professional contexts could suggest a deeper animosity.

There are a number of sociological studies and psychological research that explore radical feminist beliefs and the types of individuals who might align with them. However, it's important to distinguish between radical feminist ideology and personal attitudes like misandry.

Some key points from studies on radical feminism:

Psychological and Social Background: Studies suggest that those who align with radical feminism often come from backgrounds where they've witnessed or experienced gender-based oppression or inequality. This can lead to stronger opposition to patriarchal structures, and in extreme cases, hostility toward men in general.
Political and Social Leanings: Radical feminists often hold progressive or far-left political views, advocating for systemic changes to dismantle patriarchy. This ideology sometimes intersects with anti-capitalism and anti-imperialism movements.
Trauma and Personal Experience: Some research indicates that personal experiences with abuse, assault, or oppression by men can lead to more extreme views within feminism. However, this does not necessarily mean that these women are misandrists but are reacting to specific personal traumas.

TLDR: There are no hard and fast ways to "spot" a misandrist, and attitudes like misandry are nuanced.

walterwallcarpet · 2024-09-15T12:35:11+00:00

Not acquisitive and materialistic. Modest sexual history. Good sense of humour.

If you can find that with an attractive face & figure, you've got a package.

A package that STILL buries her head in the sand (until too late) while you can see risk. A package that believes life runs to an automatic pilot that only women, somehow understand. A package that will use techniques of silence and withdrawal of affection (sometimes for protracted periods), to try to bring you into line.

You need to show yourself capable of winning THAT particular war of attrition. It quickly falls out of the toolbox.

No_Leather3994 · 2024-09-16T03:32:15+00:00

For me, it was easy. Girls with lots of brothers or male cousins tend to have lots of sympathy towards men unless they were brought up in a sexist household. But one of my gfs treated men like normal because she lived with 2 brothers so idk was just used to them. Her brothers and father didn't treat her differently so there was no entitled princess syndrome. When she hit her brothers she could expect a good hit back hence she never got violent with me.

I don't know how to explain it but its just like she saw me as a human. No traditional double standards except that she didn't want me dressing feminine as in dresses which I never would anyway. Kind of felt like a miracle that she treated me like a human and not just some sort of thing meant to serve her.

Whatever she expected of me, she would expect of herself. She liked downtime so never complained when I took time to decompress. She never tried any of that weird jealousy-rivalry thing some girls try to do with their bfs mother. Was used to everything not being prim and proper all the time so a little mess never bothered her. Our relationship was still largely traditional but only because I tend to swing to the traditional side more once I start to love someone but she still payed, never expected anything and was very vocal about double standards and it wasn't just words, she would act on it.

Girls who actually grew up and love men are the way to go especially for anti-gynocentrists.

Title	Asking for pointers
Author	IronGates57
Upvotes	12
Comments	11
Date	September 14, 2024 9:48 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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