So yesterday I was informed that a woman I've been sleeping with is pregnant and she would like to keep the baby. I'm in a state of shock and I feel sick to my stomach at the thought of an unplanned pregnancy and fatherhood. She's insisted on keeping the baby even though we are both not ready for it financially or otherwise. She's also not the healthiest person and this concerns me about what will come out in 9 months. Is it bad that I'm thinking a miscarriage will be there to save us? Reading that she has an increased chance due to her being obese. Any of you guys out there been through this or in this boat right now?