Gents, after 5 long years, today I finally have the opportunity to retain custody of my boys! Wish me luck!

EDIT: mediation went as expected. She absolutely balked at shared custody, giving no real reason except she didn't want to. Made her look RIDICULOUS in front of the mediator, and left her head spinning. Mediator tried very hard, but ex was not moving. We took turns talking to the mediator individually, and when I left the room, the tears started. Had my way to the mediator about it all, and she told me to go to court. Got to Court next month. My state just passed shared custody legislation, and I have a TON of evidence on her, on top of having custody of our daughter. I will let you guys know what happens. Thanks for the support guys!!