Double standards.

Godudop · 2020-01-17T14:16:00+00:00

This is disrespectful to you as a person. You dont flirt with others if you are in a relationship.

Lethn · 2020-01-17T13:53:56+00:00

She's an attention seeker, just stay away, you just have to be more careful about the sort of girls you let in your life unfortunately and make sure you don't interact with girls like that. Girls like that almost always take advantage of guys constantly throughout their 20's and then wonder why they're still single towards 30 and then they're desperate to be with anyone, we see this pattern all the time.

What's depressing is even with women my age they still act like the same fucking way and haven't changed their ways in the slightest. Even taking their bullshit to social media and news outlets and trying to shame single men for not sleeping with them, take it from me, this shit does not change as you get older and you still just have to be careful.

Oncefa2 · 2020-01-17T14:26:02+00:00

Talking bad about your spouse (boyfriend in this case) around other people, especially right in front of them, is emotionally abusive.

When the woman is the overtly dominant partner she will often be volatile and outspoken, social confident but prone to lose her temper at times. She will often criticise her husband for trivial “offences,” even in front of third parties and the male partner, even though he is quite competent and effective in his work, will go along with his wife’s wishes and “give in for the sake of peace”. Such men seem to present in the clinic with loss of interest in sex within the marriage;. . . while in others they may also experience erectile impotence. (p.325)

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/244941199_The_Great_Taboo_and_the_Role_of_Patriarchy_in_Husband_and_Wife_Abuse

bufedad · 2020-01-17T14:24:18+00:00

If you were being controlling, you would have tried to change her.

What you did was decide you didn't want to be in a relationship with someone who behaves that way. It's called Self-Respect.

mgtowolf · 2020-01-17T14:40:24+00:00

Stay away from girls like that. Nothing but trouble. She is either a slut and actually looking to fuck the guys she is flirting with, or she is just an asshole that gets off on pushing guy's buttons then pikachu face acting like a victim when dude gets pissed. Or both.

JudgementalChair · 2020-01-17T16:45:52+00:00

Women will destroy your character solely for disagreeing with them. Shrug it off and keep going with your life. You'll meet someone else and they'll see that its all a lie

Lion_amongst_gods · 2020-01-17T23:05:22+00:00

All I said was that we had different thoughts on how someone should act while in a relationship

Yup. It's best to talk to your partner about all aspects of the relationship. You can't get away with behavior that your partner does not like. It's a 2-way street.

and now she and all her friends say I'm an insecure

Yeah, talking from the comfy ivory tower of government-issued legal "security" is easy. From there, you can just call anyone insecure.

Greg_W_Allan · 2020-01-18T01:15:09+00:00

after she was talking to her friend in front of me about the difference between sex with me and sex with her ex bf

Hiding here is the real reason men won't talk to women about their emotional status. A bit more discretion on the part of women would help a great deal.

KxNight · 2020-01-18T08:58:36+00:00

You’re going for girls in the wrong group. Seems like a popular social group. You’ll never find someone good there tbh. Reminds me of all my high school girlfriends. Just all shit heads.

Here’s some advice. Keep going on dates, I guarantee that the first woman to pay will be the best girlfriend you’ll have had.

prettydirtyboy · 2020-01-18T14:06:37+00:00

Ugh she’s disgusting, I’m happy for you that it’s over, from now on don’t acknowledge her existence, seriously she has “terrible human” traits going for her.

And yeah if the tables were turned she’d probably be on you for flirting or talking about your ex. Going forward make sure you build yourself to be a high value male. In this case you were the one chasing her tryna get her to act right instead of just not caring and going off to do your own thing. She knew she could get a reaction from you so she kept doing it.

Title	Double standards.
Author	joeyjoeyjoeyboobz
Upvotes	42
Comments	13
Date	January 17, 2020 1:47 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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