Female chauvinism/supremacy?

Suitecake · 2014-03-01T04:59:37+00:00

I think your post has a lot of misunderstandings.

As what the title of this threads says, do these thoughts come to mind when you see or hear someone say things like "you will never get pussy if you have them opinions"?

No. I talk about this stuff a lot, but I've never been told that. Perhaps it's because my friends aren't dicks, or perhaps it's because I'm not a particularly aggressive debater, but I've only seen this kind of rhetoric directed at other, more aggressive (read, angry) debaters.

I'm willing to believe my experience here is unusual, but I don't think it is.

The way I see it, the person who uses this tactic is implying that women hold a superiority over men because they have a pussy, therefore, we have to kowtow feminism and favour women in all gender opinions or else the mean women wont give us pussy.

No, they're telling you that your opinions, as expressed, will be a turn-off to women. Without reading/hearing your arguments, I don't know why this is. It could be because the person you're arguing with hates even the slightest whiff of men's issues. It could be because you're coming across as too angry/aggressive.

This behaviour is just as bad and sexist as the patriarchy they claim. It's a controlling behaviour.

This is, I think, a fundamental misunderstanding of the feminist idea of the patriarchy. They believe the patriarchy is a social system; not an individual's opinions.

It's not controlling. If anything, it's an attempt at persuasion. That's what people do in arguments.

YourOldPalHoward · 2014-03-01T15:50:28+00:00

How about you stop viewing sex as "being given pussy"? Sex isn't one-sided, stop acting as if it's something someone "gives you" (next step along that line of thinking is that it's "owed" to you). When you realise that it's something people participate in together for mutual enjoyment, is when women will stop viewing you as a slimeball. Maybe then they might like you for the person you are, and gasp even want to sleep with you!

romneykindamoney · 2014-03-01T15:33:34+00:00

Hahahahahahaha

Have the first stranger you meet read this, they'll explain why you have issues getting ladies for ya

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dolandoes · 2014-03-01T08:03:08+00:00

"As what the title of this threads says, do these thoughts come to mind when you see or hear someone say things like "you will never get pussy if you have them opinions"?

The way I see it, the person who uses this tactic is implying that women hold a superiority over men because they have a pussy, therefore, we have to kowtow feminism and favour women in all gender opinions or else the mean women wont give us pussy."

Most of the people who've said things like that to me in my life have been men, coincidentally (probably the greater majority); women who've said shit like that to me have mostly done it for the purposes of insulting appearance-related things out of spite (in my experience).

I've often noticed that men seem to be a lot more active about expressing misandry than women, at least in real-life (even though that is probably not their "intention," they just are doing it); women around me have always gone about it in a slightly more "natural" and "passive" way, like it's just how things are. Not sure if I'm making sense here, but I think everyone can get what I mean.

Like, any time I'm being insulted or degraded about my manliness or masculinity, it's almost always been a man doing it (trying to put me down and make me seem like "lesser"), whereas with women, they've always just sort of done it only out of spite, or kind of passive-aggressively, almost as if it's just a natural thing to do/the way things are meant to be.

Anyway, your post is sort of vague and incoherent. It seems to imply that a lot of women say this sort of thing, and then you kind of conflate women with feminists by specifying that they "claim patriarchy is bad and sexist"; not all women are feminists or even care about "patriarchy." I've only really heard women talk about "patriarchy" primarily on the internet, but where I live feminism honestly isn't such a big thing for most younger people, even younger women. At least, not the "hardcore" feminism, where they're devout to it and are extremely vocal political activists and whatnot.

It is controlling behavior, but there's a lot wrong with and too simplistic about this post for it to really express that idea properly. Might want to re-think your wording or something.

Roddy0608 · 2014-03-01T09:09:12+00:00

A lot of women seem to like to control men with sex. It's like a carrot on a stick. Therefore, if a man "can't get" sex, it's not necessarily a bad thing. It could just mean he's not desperate.

BillNyedasNaziSpy · 2014-03-01T12:01:03+00:00

Wow never come across that before!

This a troll post from "lab weasel" and the coven under the bridge. I can hear the cackle from our step sisters and GCHQ.

I have never heard anyone say this I cannot imagine any circumstance where they would.

I have heard Mothers say to daughters you will never get married if you are a feminist. We all know feminists do not want equality but special treatment.

I cannot argue with your hypothesis. I think this is a post from the other side designed to spread conflict, chaos and darkness.

Title	Female chauvinism/supremacy?
Author	cunth81
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	March 1, 2014 4:41 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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