In the early days of LLMs, saying "my wife hit me" would yield a response of "well, what could you have done to make her behave this way", and saying "my husband hit me" yielded a response of "call the police and find a safe space right away". there was a whole internet backlash about it circa 2024, and ChatGPT -- and all other public LLMs -- were patched to provide gender-neutral responses in this scenario. what do you think about the initial behavior vs. the new behavior? which do you think is more appropriate?