...anyone offer any tips on what I should expect? I'm in Texas if that matters. I have been paying 20% of my monthly income for about a year while we've been separated. I also still pay her insurance b/c I wasn't able to take her off till open enrollment unless I got a letter of divorce. I honestly don't know what to expect or bring. Just found out about it today and it's coming up this Thursday. Apparently I was supposed to get a letter but I never did...

Thanks in advance.