I came to /r/mensrights quite a while ago hoping that I could find access to resources that could help me. I have been in a lengthy custody battle and it has been extremely difficult. Every time I step into the court room I feel like I am losing. I have been falsely accused of being a drug addict, woman beater, child abuser, and lazy unemployable bum. Every time I am accused of something new, I have to prove that I didn't do. I have guilty of nothing I have been accused of yet I had to go to drug rehab, have supervised visits and bring a letter from employer saying I work and do not do drugs at work. It sucks. It's embarrassing. It's expensive.

More to the point... I came here hoping to find real resources posted. All I ever see are people complaining about dick jokes, sexist movies, idiotic Facebook posts, and other complete nonsense that helps no one. How about we help each other instead of just complaining about feminists? Where are the legal resources? Where are the support groups? I feel like there is a lot of wasted potential here.