Being flooded with countless examples on how society in general thrive of male desposability and feel entitled to it.

That there is a whole theory saying men benefit other men (who look like them/same status) and oppress everyone else. Yet-

We die more often in several areas like physical and mental health or others like war and work place accidents. We have a legal system that not only sentences us harsher than women for the same crimes, but in the US it actually happened where a female pedophile could sue her male victim for child support and win.

...these are just some of the many ugly realities boys and men are born and conditioned into continuing.

We have no laws or anything that benefit men as a whole. Yet because rich men exist and politicians who win votes and run for offices are men, its our fault somehow.

...I have a few friends that are more left leaning and so they seem movement's like feminism as things actually beneficial to both genders and all oppressed groups.

I could link studies, videos and the like- but once you see this stuff, you can't unsee it. How can I get them umbrainwashed without causing them feel I'm force converting them or whatever insults are popular at the moment?