How To Avoid A Fale Rape Accusation

oneiorosgrip · 2012-12-12T17:36:16+00:00

Over the next month, completely without my knowledge, Jizz tapped into her network of on-campus Social Justice Warrior Harridans, Manginas and White Knights. Together, they repeatedly confronted the girl, and brought the full-court press on to convince her that she had been raped. They harassed her all year, brought in counselors, staged interventions, and basically did everything they could to convince this girl that, since we had hooked up and she had later come to regret it, I deserved to spend 20+ years in jail.

There is only one thing that saved me from that fate, and that is that this girl was a decent human being who recognized that while I was indeed a dick, I didn’t deserve to have my life ruined. A weak girl would have caved to the peer pressure. A stupid girl would have succumbed to Jizz’s solipsistic logic. A petty, venal girl would have capitalized on the opportunity to exact revenge on the man who had spurned her.

Fortunately she was none of these, and I’m a free man.

Chills reading this - it's like someone stole right out of my history, changed a few details (the guy wasn't a jerk, the intervention didn't take a month, and it went to on-campus trial that I didn't initiate) and told it from the other side. My perspective was that of the intended feminist proxy-victim.

My full-court press didn't last long, just an hour... but it was a solid, increasingly intimidating hour. It started with getting invited to visit the women's studies class another girl within my circle of friends was taking. Sitting calmly in their seats, the girls of the class fixed me with looks of put-on sympathy and concern that barely concealed their excitement at having a real cause to pursue. I was first given the hard sell, my experience dictated to me as if they'd been there and I had not.

I took away that cause by not being the victim they wanted. I corrected the story she'd told them. They became angry. I was told I was in denial, that I was delusional, that (with only a few hours encounter to cause it) I had battered women's syndrome (which I'd never even heard of before) and Stockholm's syndrome (which I had, and made the mistake of calling them on their use of it.)

Several of the girls stood up from their seats. The professor did nothing to discourage the yelling, the expressions of anger, the aggression. They leaned over me, shouted at me, called me a liar, and told me that I'd be responsible "when he rapes the next girl, and the next." They blocked my way out of the classroom so that I couldn't just walk away.

My "rescuers" knew nothing about me that hadn't been told to them by my acquaintance. They did not know that I had experienced rape in the past. They did not know that I had anything to compare to my poorly thought out encounter with my friend, regretted not because of the sex or even anything to do with the two of us, but because of how another friend reacted to it. They did not know that my emotional response to their behavior - particularly the fight or flight response - was a close match to the feelings experienced during a rape, unlike anything to do with that night with my friend.

I had to badger my way out of that room, with threats of legal action and public press regarding their behavior.

When she didn't succeed at getting me to agree that I'd been raped, the acquaintance who started the whole thing took it a step further. She filed a complaint with the college's disciplinary board.

The hearing was ridiculous - they actually allowed her to make a statement, as if she actually knew anything. I was considered to be testifying against myself, even though the complaint was not my action. My statement kept my friend from being kicked out of school, but the experience was horrible for him - I can't even imagine what he must have thought when he learned he'd been accused, or how scared he must have been until he heard "this case was a complete waste of our time" followed by an acquittal.

After all was said and done, I tried to file a charge with them against her for sexual harassment, for having put me and my friend through everything she did... and was told that there was no process for dealing with female offenders, because women don't do that. They had one sitting right there in front of them, who had used their system to harass both of us... and still said women don't do that.

That experience left a huge impression, and is part of the reason why I'm so adamant about false rape charges and the contribution of feminist ideology and advocacy to worsening that phenomenon. That it happened is shameful - that it's not unique is deplorable. That it may be common is horrifying. No one's life should be that easy to wreck.

*Edit - typo (could in place of couldn't)

Title	How To Avoid A Fale Rape Accusation
Author	cic87
Upvotes	0
Comments	1
Date	December 12, 2012 3:22 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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