Hypocrisy or misunderstanding?

DJ-Roukan · 2019-04-13T15:21:35+00:00

The idiocy, and hypocrisy expressed in your comment is the very reason this sub and many other's like it exist.

Rather than the passive aggressive baiting your are trying to practice here, you educate yourself as to your own lack of knowledge, assumptions, the true intent of your post...to troll for an argument.

You may start with the fact that you may see women "empowered" by their outrage at injustice, and men as "whiners" for doing the same.

Maito_Guy · 2019-04-13T16:03:01+00:00

More vague bullshit with a side of shaming language. People talk about serious issues here. We talk about women in terms of gendered double standards and gender dynamics/roles. You very clearly have no idea what you are talking about and seem to be operating under the faulty assumption that we are some male version of feminism.

Maybe stop whining and crying about your strawman of the sub and stick around, you might learn something.

Avistew · 2019-04-13T15:36:44+00:00

It makes sense for a group who wants equal rights for men to point out when women are treated in a way men wouldn't be. So I definitely understand seeing many posts about women, although I wouldn't say it's most of them.

Similarly, it makes sense to care about what people think about men, as it's a reflection of what it is okay to say about them. This is part of what we are fighting, seeing examples of what we are fighting is normal, in my opinion.

I don't think either is pathetic or whiny.

headingtoshore · 2019-04-13T15:43:34+00:00

This community seems like they are attempting to find ways to deal with men’s issues and etc. but it’s hard to ignore all of the whining and crying.

Good. So if it's hard to ignore, then don't ignore it. Yes, men can cry. It is a stated goal of many feminist inspired policy makers to make as many men as possible cry.

It's the ignoring of men's pain that gets us to the point where they are killed with impunity, raped with impunity, their children stolen from them, their names stricken from records of their accomplishments etc.

Perhaps it’s not everyone, but this community seems like it’s predominantly a hub for grown men to cry and effectively find excuses for why they shouldn’t be expected to step up.

It's all in the seeming

This place is not for everyone, if it's not for you hey, that's fine. You would prefer we not share our pain, do you go to forums of other groups and tell them to stfu about their pain?

I really can not respond to the vague 'step up' comment, I'm here stepping up, what more do you want, and why do you think i owe that to you?

The message of basing your identity on the things that are important to you is great, but why does it look like what’s important to a lot of people here are women, and women’s opinion of them? It seems a little pathetic to me.

more seeming

Yeah, when people talk about what is important in life, mainly that turns out to be other people. Are you sure women in their forums do not talk about men? Or is it just that men should be held to some different standard. Or is it 'yes women talk about men, and men can also talk about men, even stephen'.

If it seems pathetic to you, well that depends on your command of the language, the meaning of 'pathetic' is: arousing pity, especially through vulnerability or sadness. and in turn the word 'pity' means: the feeling of sorrow and compassion caused by the suffering and misfortunes of others.

So if you mean here that you are inspired to compassion by the suffering of men, welcome aboard. On the other hand if you are just choosing words out of a hat, because you think they sound condescending, meh, you are already beyond my reach.

SirKolbath · 2019-04-13T16:05:01+00:00

You know what I find intriguing? People like you always think that issues that aren’t as important to them that are brought up by others are just “whining and crying.”

Nobody really asked for your opinion of this subreddit or what we talk about here. You have a 26 day old account that has yet to even reach positive karma— while internet points are essentially meaningless they can be a good indicator of whether or not a person is talking out of their ass in the subreddits to which they subscribe, and all indicators are that if you sat on a tube of gorilla glue you would be mysteriously struck silent.

As another commenter posted, you’re a hypocrite. “No whining!” you whine. It’s artless and it is stupid.

Now, to address your question, such as it is, before a problem can be confronted it must be acknowledged as a problem. Men receiving custody in less than a third of divorces is a problem. We bring it up here because it needs to be addressed. We talk about women here because, regardless what the retarded left would have you believe, there are exactly and only two genders (and no, trans does not count). If the pendulum is swinging towards women then by definition it is swinging away from men.

It should be sitting squarely in the middle. The fact that it swings at all is because retards keep pushing it one way or another. (And that doesn’t mean a disingenuous understanding of “middle” that means exactly fifty fifty in all things for men and women. Women do not belong in certain areas of life unless they can perform the tasks properly.)

Now quit your own whining and go do something constructive.

Title	Hypocrisy or misunderstanding?
Author	Enzo-Max
Upvotes	1
Comments	28
Date	April 13, 2019 2:56 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/bcrb8x/hypocrisy_or_misunderstanding/
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