Hi, i really like this girl she is very good to me, her thinking and characteristics are very very good, she is a Christian with beautiful eyes and body. There are two problems i am facing right now :- 1. She says that she sees me as friend not romantically but when i talk her about love and sex she will talk to me deeply, when i call her to date she will come also when i caressing her body she will not say stop. Some people told me that she say she sees you as a friend because she is testing you how much you love her and they told me to go stronger on her, they advised mento just be vulnerable and tell her my feelings after that she will stop seeing me as a friend. They said that she is afraid that you are using her or you will have sex and dumb her that’s why she is distant so they told me to give her reassurance. 2. The second problem i am facing is i advocate for equality and fair treatment, i don’t agree with male disposability and men being last in rescuing or forceful male draft and i afraid she will discover that one day and dumb me, i also believe if some natural disaster comes the job of protecting family is not only my duty its both of the husband and wife responsibility and also i think that if there is evacuation or other harsher things i will try to save my wife and children and escape with “THEM” some people say you should save them in the cost of your life or you should save them and stay and fight or die but no one expects the wife to do that so why should i? even no one expects the wife to save her children and husbands if they are in danger, if children and father die by home fire no one shame the wife for not saving the children and the husband she herself don’t feel embarrassed or shame so why should the husband? So should i explain to her all this things when we meet next time? Or as some people say should i stay silent until i sleep with her or get something out of the relationship? i got suggestions from a user here last time but i get concerned again about thing because i afraid breaking both of our hearts.