In order to get motivated to confront my manipulative wife (I am a people pleaser) am sick of being a door mat. I have stopped taking my medication for anxiety . My head is zapping and I am so irritable work is suffering children( late teens to twenty-five suffering all are 4 dependant on us. I can't leave her as we are in business and are tied tight financial. But I can't live like this anymore she can practical get me to do anything. Tried many times but it always returns to the same. Any advice ?