So... i earn well, like really well. I meet dudes, be it "children" 20 years of age or so and grown up dudes (read: older than me) and i just let them know I share the pain. Just let them know I know what's it like to be a man, i've made grown men cry. Brothers please just share your feelings, not all of them, just a few to another. Just acknowledge that it's fkin hard, and you're doing just about as good as they are. You'll see a diffrent world, a world of men in pain who are so happy that they are not the only ones. They're not happy coz there's pain, they're happy or relieved that they're not alone. We all suffer in silence. Open up!