Interesting case:

"The woman that I was In a "relationship" with once showed me a picture of her grandmother, she must have been around 60 when the picture was taken, she had a grin on her face, in such an unrestrained manner that would send a chill up the back of even the hardest person,, this "girlfriend" of mine told me a story about her grandmother beating her grandpa over the head with a frying pan numerous times she said (he did not do anything) she then said, she (grandma) went out to have a cigarette and after each pull she had this look on her face.. Which she said was very disturbing.. I tried to get her to show me what she saw, to imitate her, but she refused.. her grandpa's Meekness was actually weakness.."

It's more prevalent than you think.