I was talking with some young men (early 20's), and was talking to them about making sure to be respected and to not accept abusive behaviors. But some of them begin to talk about they called "shit tests". They said that women's disrespecting them was just a way of being tested. They listed me several disrespectful behaviors from girls that they dated (eg: being talked down for no reason) and found that normal. Worse, they thought that they should not complain and try to pass these "shit tests". I think that it is wrong. What is your opinion on that ?