I made the mistake of falling for peer pressure of my girlfriend to marry this year. She cheated on me but I decided to work it put since we have a kid together but after being married for a few months she stop doing alot of things from when we were dating. Thats after 5 years of being together. I feel like im being emotionally drained trying to be the responsible parent and try to be a good husband and getting nothing in return. I need advice in getting a divorce so as I dont get screwed just because im the male. We both work even though I make more money. Please help.