I've been having to think about how to approach this situation. At my work there are multiple older women who lately have started to think it's funny to touch my chest inappropriately. I'm a bigger guy with gyno so it's incredibly embarrassing

My workplace is very unorthodox, it is a privately owned company and HR is pretty much nonexistent. We make drastically inappropriate comments and jokes with each other all day long every day, which is fine with me. What upsets me though is that we have had issues recently with a male coworker touching women at work on the back and sides and how it makes the women very uncomfortable despite him not doing it In an obviously inappropriate/sexual way.

But apparently the women at work think it's okay to touch my chest whenever they want in a blatantly inappropriate way and to them its not a problem. Honestly I probably wouldn't care if it was my ass they were touching or something like that but I have had experiences with past coworkers touching my chest in the same way (male and female) during a time where quitting wasn't an option and trying to call the people out would have lead to retaliation so it just really sets me off in a way nothing else does. I have jokingly told these women that if they continue to do what they're doing, I'm going to start touching their chests back. These are of course hollow threats due to the current double standards regarding sexual assault.

I plan on having a talk with these women, but honestly just the fact that this is a discussion I need to have royally pisses me off. If the roles were reversed I'd be extremely lucky to get even just one warning, but in most cases I would likely get fired for doing the same stuff they are doing. Me and the women in question are pretty friendly together, I stuck up for some of them when they were getting touched inappropriately by male coworkers so having them turn around and do something worse to me is pretty disheartening. If they were men I would have already thrown some punches or elbows. As a side note, I have a girlfriend and one of the women touching me is pregnant and has a boyfriend. Pretty sure her and her boyfriend would not appreciate if I behaved the same way she is.