Please please please I need help I am about to lose it I am about to crash out

Hot-Alternative6787 · 2025-07-29T13:55:10+00:00

Hey man I know it can be hard I’m new to this myself being 20 and fuck it can get to you. I always found the best way I could fix most of that was by getting into work and setting a goal. Personally I found along with many other men motorbikes to be a big help and a good way to meet other people. I can’t tell how old you are but I know some people find depending on country that getting back into education even part time helps as it forces you to socialise.

AffectionateLaw567 · 2025-07-29T14:01:06+00:00

Go ASAP to a calm place, with silence, only the Sound of nature.

Try to relax and entretain yourself by doing activites such as making photos of the animals and plants arround that you find beautiful.

Get some snacks and fresh water.

Take a small Notebook and write simple ideas about how can you fix the situation you are in with ways you havent tried before, like joining local online clubs, go to places/conventions about any interest you have, etc.

Check local psychologists, when you going to get info, Talk briefly about your situation and your goals so they are conscious about your situation, and if needed, call the Mental health line in your country/ emergency number so they can help you control your current state.

PLEASE do not give Up. Everyone goes through stuff, some ppl more, some ppl less. You deserve to heal and live, and to be the person you want to be.

Is not a short path trust me I have gone through stuff too, but someday you Will look back at all your progress and be proud of yourself,

Take your time and take care ❤️

World-Three · 2025-07-29T14:27:52+00:00

I remember my first job... Mt Airy casino... My mother applied and told me to apply. She got an interview, I did not. She told me to get ready because I was going anyway.

"Keep trying." I called over and over, I was right outside the office. It was full. I continue calling, and this lady rushes out of her office claiming that some kid with no experience keeps calling. "I don't want him. He should take the hint."

Do I keep calling? It was a punch in the gut honestly. Screw this kid, is basically what they were saying. My mom was interviewing, and came out, pointed at me "That's my son, the person who keeps calling."

She calls me into the room and rushes up to shake my hand shamelessly as if I couldn't hear or see anything that just happened. I wanted to turn her into flesh and bonemeal... I was greeted and invited to sit in a different room where an interviewer who knew I had no experience simply asked me about my attendance record in school... That was literally all he cared about. I missed 3 days in 2 years.

I got the job... I always hated school, but I would have rather went back to school than work there.

It's bullshit. What I said wasn't to make you feel better, but to give you an idea of how people treat you when they think you're nothing... My father vouched for me and got me a much better job with him later, which had several machine certifications that are relevant to this day. I wish it were a joke that life is more about who you know than what you know, but that's what the above text basically describes.

Title	Please please please I need help I am about to lose it I am about to crash out
Author	Traditional_Mark_116
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	July 29, 2025 1:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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