Many MRM critics (and even critics within MRM) don't understand that when MRAs defend something against the charges of sexism they are not defending the thing itself but are only pointing out that it is not sexist, misogynist, anti-woman,... It may be bad, but it's not sexist.

The most famous example of this was when Karen and honeybadgers were accused of defending certain 3rd world gender-related practices. And it wasn't only feminists who accused them of being misogynists, apologists and what not. But honeybadgers were not defending 3rd world customs. They were saying that those customs have a context and that they are not misogynist or targeted specifically against women. And, as in the West, criticism of those practices only tells half of the story, as in the Boko Haram kidnapping.

So, keep this in mind and carefully read what MRAs are saying.