Sometimes the MRM annoys me.

I'm a male and I have been involved with the MRM in various ways since 2006 or so, but sometimes the MRM goes in bizarre directions.

I think we could be much more effective if we stopped trying to use feminist tactics. Why? Because we have balls and that means that we're instantly less sympathetic.

Men get respect and attention by being competent, not by being victims. This is the exact opposite of women, who generally get scorn from other women for being competent, and sympathy if they're being a victim. This is why feminism is so dead-set on keeping certain myths alive, such as the wage gap, and making issues out of thin-air in other situations, like when they say you're "blaming the victim" and compare it to calling a woman who was raped while walking around at 2 AM in the ghetto a whore or something (as if this is an every-day event or something).

If you want to reflect positively upon the MRM and make it seem like the hip new thing, be good at everything you do. Want to discredit feminists? Don't do it by destroying the sympathy they live off of.

At the end of the day, keep in mind that we have logic and reason on our side, and they have nothing but feelings on the other. We are infinitely superior to them because of this. Our's is the way of man, theirs is the way of animals. Don't try to make emotional arguments to defend our positions, and when they make emotional arguments against us, tell them to man up and speak logically instead of acting like a little girl who is crying because her siblings won't let her play football with them.

Being a victim doesn't look good, unless you're a feminist, so do not be a victim.

EDIT: I don't get why I am getting the downvotes. Why can't people just state their disagreement?