Why Women Cheat

2012-11-13T18:23:42+00:00

Any time a person thinks they've got the absolute answer to this kind of question, its a clear indication to me that they need to be ignored.

saracuda · 2012-11-13T23:11:06+00:00

I'm unsure why reasons for cheating are gender-exclusive.

Messiah · 2012-11-13T18:40:50+00:00

Insecurity. It is actually that simple, unless of course the cheater just doesn't really love you.

The motivation to cheat is really about her and her wants.

About her insecurity.

She wants to feel sexy and attractive; and she wants a sexy and attractive man to make her feel that way.

She is insecure about how she looks.

She also wants her physical and emotional needs met; and to not still feel bored after.

She needs someone else to make her feel good.

She Is Bored She doesn’t feel her relationship is exciting anymore. Everyday life is mundane, repetitive, and this becomes something she resents (albeit comfortably). When she’s approached by a smooth-talking jerk, she’ll choose jerk over boredom. Having an affair is her response to feeling trapped in a boring relationship.

She is insecure in her relationship.

She Is Scorned She’s been cheated on and feels humiliated. “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” because she is fearless about the consequences of her payback revenge affair.

You made her feel insecure.

She Is Sexually Frustrated Women love sex. When there isn’t enough sex in the relationship or the sex is boring/bland, a woman will fantasize about sewing her wild oats again. The reason romantic novels and books like 50 Shades are Grey are so popular is because women pine for acting on their sexual desires and unleashing their inner-slut (without judgement, of course). This fantasy turnsover into reality if an indiscreet sexual affair is arranged that could alleviate her sexual frustrations.

She is insecure in her relationship.

She Has Low Self-Esteem She isn’t secure enough about herself and how her partner feels about her. She constantly needs attention and being told she’s sexy, beautiful, and loved to boost her self-esteem and reinforce the idea that she is desired.

Bingo

See the pattern?

ErasmusMRA · 2012-11-13T18:01:04+00:00

Also, one aspect of child abuse (especially of sexual nature) is that it makes women more promiscuous. If she was abused as a child it might be best to stay away.

2012-11-13T18:28:49+00:00

She's a lying whore who has no sense of respect for you or commitment to relationships...

I'm not bitter.

2012-11-13T19:19:21+00:00

because 'dat ass

Title	Why Women Cheat
Author	mikeindeed
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	November 13, 2012 5:57 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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