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Why you're single

danielmd92

April 25, 2018

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Title	Why you're single
Author	danielmd92
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	April 25, 2018 6:17 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/8erfdx/why_youre_single/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/why-youre-single.1178197 https://theredarchive.com/post/1178197

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[–]0x123d 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]mwobuddy 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]danielmd92[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]mwobuddy 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

https://youtu.be/Pb-Hpb5fTgQ?t=94

He's completely correct, however.... This is manipulative behavior. Its classic 101 manipulation. "Lets say one thing and see how they respond to it to gauge whether or not they actually care about me".

This is TOXIC communication behavior, and its actually written into a college communications class book as toxic behavior, e.g. being manipulative.

Its along the same lines as "hey, are you busy today?" which can be a form of manipulative behavior because it forces a person to either lie or answer honestly. If they answer honestly and are not busy, and then person A asks them something unreasonable, it puts person B in the position of feeling coerced into doing what person A wants. If person A simply asks "can you help me do unreasonable thing X tomorrow", then person B can simply say "sorry, I can't", and doesn't create an emotionally entrapping scenario.

And look at what response Tony Robbins got for this question. He got women to respond exactly as they would. They don't like it if you DO NOT look for hidden meaning behind their behavior. After all, when women say no to sex, they really mean yes.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3379584

We investigated whether women ever engage in token resistance to sex--saying no but meaning yes--and, if they do, what their reasons are for doing so. A questionnaire administered to 610 undergraduate women asked whether they had ever engaged in token resistance and, if so, asked them to rate the importance of 26 possible reasons. We found that 39.3% of the women had engaged in token resistance at least once. Their reasons fell into three categories: practical, inhibition-related, and manipulative reasons. Women's gender role attitudes, erotophobia-erotophilia, and other attitudes and beliefs varied as a function of their experience with token resistance and their sexual experience. We argue that, given society's sexual double standard, token resistance may be a rational behavior. It could, however, have negative consequences, including discouraging honest communication, perpetuating restrictive gender stereotypes, and--if men learn to disregard women's refusals--increasing the incidence of rape.

Now, more recent and highly feminist studies (since psychology has been HEAVILY invaded by Leftist/feminist ideology in the last 20 years) of 'token resistance' have concluded that 'most women actually mean no', but that flies in the face of exactly what we know about women just from watching this video: That they never say what they are really thinking, and they are putting out baits to see how the male responds to those baits. To quite literally "mind read".

This is, fyi what women mean by men who "aren't emotionally available". They don't want a man who cries and talks about his bad day. They want a man who is always "in tune" to their emotions, and knows what's on their mind.

The fact that such manipulative behavior in asking "do you need to stop for a drink" is considered acceptable, let alone "normal" for women to do, is a HUGE FUCKING PROBLEM, and for me, that's a red flag to get out fast. If someone you're supposed to TRUST won't be straight with you, then you're in trouble.

[–]danielmd92[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]mwobuddy 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link