I'm 30 so I'm probably losing out on the chaste women now (I remain chaste). I'm not a doctor/lawyer, but I'm doing ok + very sporty etc.

I grew up with women who showed me the truth of the female nature. I find women largely unappealing now because they're all the same. To put it into context, my sisters are liberal muslims and all three are in their late 30's, unmarried. They have been with every type of bad human you can think of which I had to deal with from an early age. My father had a secret second marriage with a woman for 40 years - that woman's husband died shortly of depression shortly after finding out of the affair which led to my father's second marriage. My mother continues to respond to my father's abuse.

When I went to College and witnessed college parties first hand, I looked at the muslims there and vowed to never marry a muslim woman who would go on to 'turn religious' after having that kind of past. They had their cake and ate it. They can go for a simp muslim.

I realize that ALL, not some, not most, but ALL women are drawn to men who are truly POS. Women need to have their sexual-market-value validated by a man who makes them feel like he may not value it enough.

He validates them sometimes, and indicates a lack of value for them in other times. It's this inconsistency that makes women wild and feel like they have to prove themselves - it makes them feel truly alive, they have the illusion of feeling like they're achieving something and like their value as a woman is being legitimized (just how like how we end up trying to prove ourselves when we're wrapped up in an argument with some troll). For the women, it's chemistry, it's drama, it's a blockbuster, it's a rollercoaster, it's an Epic. They will feel moments of validation so richly, that it's like the world becomes full of colors they've never experienced - a hyper awareness, a hyper consciousness - what a personally rewarding experience!

At the end of it when they're washed up by their experience(s), they're 'thankful' for their experiences for making them the woman they are today. STroNgEr. They would have actually been legit stronger if they had exercized the ability to keep themselves away from harm because it's irrational to go near it. A bit of SELF-RESTRAINT. A bit of PURPOSE because they actually know better and allow their purpose to mould their personalities.

The way this society is set up actually normalizes 'evil' attitudes.

- I can be an evil person if I wanted to, I know EXACTLY how it's done. But I would get burned out because it requires being evil on some level. So by extension, I really HATE western minded muslim men, too.

Why would I marry a western liberal muslim woman just because she's muslim? If worse comes to absolute worst and the world tips upside down, I'd much rather as a middle easterner, marry into white privilege if I'm going to live the western way. Their views can probably be changed, too as they simply don't know better (our Deen).

I even consider longer term relationships as marriages. I put these women below divorcees who at least did things the Islamic way.

I'll see you around.