What's the actual point of this debate if everything in life is relative? Everyone has their own existential philosophy based on anecdotal evidence; why are you all attempting to apply your experiences onto others with generalizations?

The whole point of life is to experience what you cannot predict, not to "win". Because at the end of the day you can have anything you want in life, you just can't have everything.

I find individuals who still believe that they can win or lose in life to be very intellectually handicapped and lazy. They constantly take shortcuts and are a detriment to improving the standard of living. Competition is simply a form of role selection, true competition does not exist in the real world. Either everything just is what it is, or we all technically lose because we cannot escape death.

If you really want to be the first person to ever win at life, find a way to become immortal; or you can just trust me when I tell you that it is impossible without completely redefining what it means to be human.

You are not a winner, you are not a loser. You are just a speck of dust in the grand scheme of things. To use someone else's words on here: "grow up". Stop caring about what other people think of you and just enjoy the ride. The good in life would would not be meaningful without the bad.