All my sexual relationships were better when I was the one in control and me and the girls had more fun when I chose what to do. Funnily enough all tapered off when I gave them head during some time in the relationship, or when I did what they wanted.

I really enjoy being dominant and girls seem to enjoy it aswell, even when I was a starting out having sex had no idea how to fuck or finger properly, it made it so much better.

Do you guys think this is another form of betatization trough a thousand cuts, to listen to what they want and give it to them.

I think sex is best when there immersion by both parties. Not by premade strategies and dialogues on what and what not to do. Thoughts on that?