Crosspost "He’s having sex with other girls." from /r/dating_advice:

I am dating a guy that I really like. He’s perfect and everything I want. We’ve been physically intimate but we have not had sex. I know sexual compatibility is super important to him. He’s mentioned it a few times. He doesn’t push me really but he has mentioned that he is seeing other girls and is having sex with them. Which hurts me because while we haven’t had sex, we have been very intimate very quickly. I’m happy he is being honest tho. He says he feels the most compatible and connected with me and he doesn’t want me to do anything I don’t want to do but he also knows himself and won’t stop seeing these other girls because he enjoys the sex.

I’m not sure what to do. I want to give him pleasure but I can’t stop thinking about him with other girls and what they are doing. It makes it hard to want to give myself fully.

Posted by missionfinder | 22 February 2022 | Link